lol okay, again just go to talk to her since you seem to know better than she does. Idk what else to tell you.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:01Still a whole bunch of nothingGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:58This was my next reply since you apparently couldn’t find it.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:41All you said was that she didn’t think they would let her write on the show, none of that suggests anything that you’re trying to infer.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:21
If you had bothered to read my reply, you would see where I mentioned what she did didn’t sound like it had anything to do with her being an actor on the show…Maybe go talk to her about it, since you apparently know better than she does.
“Look, I’m just saying that’s what she said. I don’t think it’s crazy to say that if they won’t let her write, then they probably wouldn’t let her direct. Also it didn’t sound like the reason for not letting her write had anything to do with her being one of the actors”
All I’m saying is that the anon who thought Grey’s probably wouldn’t let her direct may not be completely wrong.
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again, you’re still saying a whole bunch of nothingGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:07lol okay, again just go to talk to her since you seem to know better than she does. Idk what else to tell you.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:01Still a whole bunch of nothingGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:58This was my next reply since you apparently couldn’t find it.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:41
All you said was that she didn’t think they would let her write on the show, none of that suggests anything that you’re trying to infer.
“Look, I’m just saying that’s what she said. I don’t think it’s crazy to say that if they won’t let her write, then they probably wouldn’t let her direct. Also it didn’t sound like the reason for not letting her write had anything to do with her being one of the actors”
All I’m saying is that the anon who thought Grey’s probably wouldn’t let her direct may not be completely wrong.
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Girl what? Are you stupid? I quite literally was just saying that the anon who didn’t think Grey’s would let her direct may not be entirely wrong since according to Cat they probably wouldn’t let her write.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:06And are you the same one who said she threatened to leave the show?? What are you going on aboutGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:58This was my next reply since you apparently couldn’t find it.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:41All you said was that she didn’t think they would let her write on the show, none of that suggests anything that you’re trying to infer.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 03:21
If you had bothered to read my reply, you would see where I mentioned what she did didn’t sound like it had anything to do with her being an actor on the show…Maybe go talk to her about it, since you apparently know better than she does.
“Look, I’m just saying that’s what she said. I don’t think it’s crazy to say that if they won’t let her write, then they probably wouldn’t let her direct. Also it didn’t sound like the reason for not letting her write had anything to do with her being one of the actors”
All I’m saying is that the anon who thought Grey’s probably wouldn’t let her direct may not be completely wrong.
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I'll just jump in to interrupt the conversation to say that it was adorable for Cat to post ER, you can tell she wanted to show support but also found their pic cute and wanted to share their cute partner's pic with everyone. I think they're basically an out couple now after Cat's "Can you" comment and her posting stories about ER.
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damn you got all of that from her reposting their picture?Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:34I'll just jump in to interrupt the conversation to say that it was adorable for Cat to post ER, you can tell she wanted to show support but also found their pic cute and wanted to share their cute partner's pic with everyone. I think they're basically an out couple now after Cat's "Can you" comment and her posting stories about ER.
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So anyone I post on my story is my partner is what you're saying hereGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:34I'll just jump in to interrupt the conversation to say that it was adorable for Cat to post ER, you can tell she wanted to show support but also found their pic cute and wanted to share their cute partner's pic with everyone. I think they're basically an out couple now after Cat's "Can you" comment and her posting stories about ER.
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You guys are so dumb, sometimes, my godGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 05:01So anyone I post on my story is my partner is what you're saying hereGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:34I'll just jump in to interrupt the conversation to say that it was adorable for Cat to post ER, you can tell she wanted to show support but also found their pic cute and wanted to share their cute partner's pic with everyone. I think they're basically an out couple now after Cat's "Can you" comment and her posting stories about ER.

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Thanksss for interrupting this conversation, and yes it's good to see that they are opening up more.E.r's post is very beautifulGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:34I'll just jump in to interrupt the conversation to say that it was adorable for Cat to post ER, you can tell she wanted to show support but also found their pic cute and wanted to share their cute partner's pic with everyone. I think they're basically an out couple now after Cat's "Can you" comment and her posting stories about ER.
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How is her posting opening up moreGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 09:19Thanksss for interrupting this conversation, and yes it's good to see that they are opening up more.E.r's post is very beautifulGuest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 04:34I'll just jump in to interrupt the conversation to say that it was adorable for Cat to post ER, you can tell she wanted to show support but also found their pic cute and wanted to share their cute partner's pic with everyone. I think they're basically an out couple now after Cat's "Can you" comment and her posting stories about ER.
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ER's post says it all. It's so important especially with what's going on in the States and elsewhere in the world right now. Love Cat's reposting, as she always does. Love to the trans folks and community out there
⚧️.
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Anyways, happy 15 years of Amelia Shepherd!!
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295 episodes!!!Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 13:47Anyways, happy 15 years of Amelia Shepherd!!
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Me too! Since she’s already missed 2 this season, I hope she won’t miss anymore!
That Grey’s anatomy news page on X says almost 280…this is why we don’t depend on AI
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It would be odd if she ends up with 299Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 14:03Me too! Since she’s already missed 2 this season, I hope she won’t miss anymore!
That Grey’s anatomy news page on X says almost 280…this is why we don’t depend on AI
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Oh look I knew we were probably getting new interns based on the beginning of last week's episode but look it seems like we're actually getting new interns before Amelia gets a love interest or storyline that doesn't involve Meredith
https://deadline.com/2025/04/trevor-jac ... 236355396/
https://deadline.com/2025/04/trevor-jac ... 236355396/
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She might but she would need to be in evert episode left this season because there's only 5
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Idk how many episodes the vets are missing this season, but since she’s already missed 2 then, hopefully she will be in the rest.Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2025, 21:48She might but she would need to be in evert episode left this season because there's only 5
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Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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okayGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:08Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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I think it’s kinda given that Ellen is out the door but for sure remains as an executive producer. So I think the question is more on the rest of the cast members.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:08Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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Did we ever figure out when er will appear on Dylan’s podcast?
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What is wrong with what the other anon said?Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:21okayGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:08Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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Not sure, but hopefully soon…tomorrow would be great lolGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:55Did we ever figure out when er will appear on Dylan’s podcast?
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lol it’s that hard to figure out who they wanted to discussGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 02:16What is wrong with what the other anon said?Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:21okayGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:08Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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They mentioned Cat and Ellen, is there someone else you're referring to? Genuinely askingGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 02:22lol it’s that hard to figure out who they wanted to discussGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 02:16What is wrong with what the other anon said?Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:21okayGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:08Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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E.R. Is on Drew Afualos podcast today. Really loved them on their last time, so I’m so exited about their return
https://open.spotify.com/episode/27BXAy ... CwcvntnbRg
https://open.spotify.com/episode/27BXAy ... CwcvntnbRg
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If anyone listened, please mention if they mentioned Caterina and what they said about her.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 07:04E.R. Is on Drew Afualos podcast today. Really loved them on their last time, so I’m so exited about their return
https://open.spotify.com/episode/27BXAy ... CwcvntnbRg
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Listening to ER's ep on Drew's pod now. So far so good. I will try and give a summary of it all when I've finished!
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Okay, some notable things to mention from the pod ep.
ER doesn't run lines with Cat cause they say it's a relationship destroyer
. They said they did that in their last relationship and it was a disaster. They say it feels like when people correct your pronunciation. And the line partner might stop or disrupt your flow or throw in little minor details that was missed in the script. Their interpretation and your interpretation to a scene or script will be different. So it can lead to disagreements. It's just a hard process. So ER is like for the sake of their future with Cat, they don't run lines together.
A Grey's mention after that, about acting and how to respond to a scene partner and checking in on your own reactions when acting. This gets a little tricky to summarise, so bear with me. But ER mentions Grey's cause when they act, they pick out their acting "arc", their acting choices essentially for their character. They said they had intents to accomplish their acting choices and responses. But also "there's this little woman who's helping me accomplish it, but she's stealing all my attention". They don't name drop Cat, but the assumption is that "the little woman" is Cat.
ER also mentions how a lot of the times they're relying or making a decision to use their body language when acting. So then ER's responses and acting is based on how they were interacting with Cat, cause they're bouncing the energy between them off of her acting response. ER mentions how it feels "magnetic" between them and how they and Cat always had great chemistry anyway, so it wasn't hard to reciprocate whatever they were both throwing at each other acting wise.
ER doesn't run lines with Cat cause they say it's a relationship destroyer
A Grey's mention after that, about acting and how to respond to a scene partner and checking in on your own reactions when acting. This gets a little tricky to summarise, so bear with me. But ER mentions Grey's cause when they act, they pick out their acting "arc", their acting choices essentially for their character. They said they had intents to accomplish their acting choices and responses. But also "there's this little woman who's helping me accomplish it, but she's stealing all my attention". They don't name drop Cat, but the assumption is that "the little woman" is Cat.
ER also mentions how a lot of the times they're relying or making a decision to use their body language when acting. So then ER's responses and acting is based on how they were interacting with Cat, cause they're bouncing the energy between them off of her acting response. ER mentions how it feels "magnetic" between them and how they and Cat always had great chemistry anyway, so it wasn't hard to reciprocate whatever they were both throwing at each other acting wise.
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The day before recording the pod ep, Cat and ER spent time together doing nothing. Cat asked what they wanted to do, and they're like "can we just stare". And she's like that sounds so nice. Like just having down time together, sitting together in silence, just zoning out together. Just rawdogging it in their home together. ER said if somebody walked in on them, they'd think Cat and ER were plugged in and was powering up on the coach like robots
.
ER says they're both so busy sometimes they both get what it's like to be that busy. So sometimes it's just nice for both of them to just sit and spend time together doing nothing. ER says spending time online also zaps their brain, so they don't want to do that in their down time. And sometimes their brain just has so much going on up there, just unplugging is the best solution.
They call it "stare time", and it's when they feel the most femme. Like sometimes ER will have a day where they're just so out of it, so burnt out, they're just staring off into space, zoning out. They gave an example of sometimes if they've had a busy day and they'll be in the kitchen staring off, holding onto something that needs to be opened, but doesn't open it. And Cat will just come in and open it for them. And ER will just be like "awww". Drew said they both match each other's freak.
ER says they're both so busy sometimes they both get what it's like to be that busy. So sometimes it's just nice for both of them to just sit and spend time together doing nothing. ER says spending time online also zaps their brain, so they don't want to do that in their down time. And sometimes their brain just has so much going on up there, just unplugging is the best solution.
They call it "stare time", and it's when they feel the most femme. Like sometimes ER will have a day where they're just so out of it, so burnt out, they're just staring off into space, zoning out. They gave an example of sometimes if they've had a busy day and they'll be in the kitchen staring off, holding onto something that needs to be opened, but doesn't open it. And Cat will just come in and open it for them. And ER will just be like "awww". Drew said they both match each other's freak.
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LA was ER's favourite tour place to date. Cause it's a hard crowd, but they also had friends and family out in the crowd to support them. Performing in LA meant a lot to them. Cause they felt so much what they called disappointment management. Convincing themselves cause it was a tough crowd, fans are going to hate it so they have to work hard to win the crowd over. And ER didn't want fans to have a bad time either. So they zeroed in for LA, and the LA crowd reciprocated the energy.
ER felt grateful like people were singing along, bopping along and enjoying their music. People were moshing along as well. Some kids were even wig yanking lol. It was a fun atmosphere. ER also mentioned how their fan base is truly diverse in all the ways. How at every show there were Grey's fans there too and a lot of fans with disabilities. And ER was touched that their fans were there and had such a diverse fan base. They said it's not always or often they get to meet fans especially if they're doing stuff on tv. But playing music and performing gives them a chance to meet the fans and have that interaction.
ER is grateful for their fans, they don't care if they know them solely from Grey's or from their music or both. They don't care if fans come to their shows cause they know them from Grey's. They're just happy to share their work. ER is happy that fans enjoy themselves at their shows, and find community amongst other people also there. ER is just glad that the fans do enjoy their work and art that they were making for themselves and others. They said watching people actively experience and consume their art is what keeps them going.
ER felt grateful like people were singing along, bopping along and enjoying their music. People were moshing along as well. Some kids were even wig yanking lol. It was a fun atmosphere. ER also mentioned how their fan base is truly diverse in all the ways. How at every show there were Grey's fans there too and a lot of fans with disabilities. And ER was touched that their fans were there and had such a diverse fan base. They said it's not always or often they get to meet fans especially if they're doing stuff on tv. But playing music and performing gives them a chance to meet the fans and have that interaction.
ER is grateful for their fans, they don't care if they know them solely from Grey's or from their music or both. They don't care if fans come to their shows cause they know them from Grey's. They're just happy to share their work. ER is happy that fans enjoy themselves at their shows, and find community amongst other people also there. ER is just glad that the fans do enjoy their work and art that they were making for themselves and others. They said watching people actively experience and consume their art is what keeps them going.
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Last part.
Drew and ER are talking about why men just don't get women, like don't appreciate women. The toxic environment of boys looking up to toxic men that treat women horribly, being indoctrinated by them. They talk about boys seeking emotional validation from toxic masculinity. And they turn out to be toxic men who only look for sex and validation from women. ER mentions that in a queer environment, they're "pulling oil from the earth" not to demand something in return from women, but doing nothing but replenish the woman.
So with Cat, ER is there for her joy. They are there for her everything. They are there for her sex, her stories, her intelligence, all the "soul assets" she has. And they are working hard to "replenish that shit"
. ER sees her as a whole person. They're giving her all their energy, making sure their life is interesting, introducing their friends to her, basically including her in their life. And my favourite part, ER is making sure to dress cute at least 60% of the time. They are making sure that they are experiencing the joy of this beautiful person, experiencing her joy. Cause men don't realise how much effort women put into continually giving joy. So the masculine energy needs to match that feminine energy. Be in tune with your feminine energy to give back to your partner and ensures you're giving her joy.
They talk about the feminine shining on the masculine. How masculinity is at its most beautiful when it's in service to femininity. ER mentions Grey's again as an example. How they got a leg up in the Grey's fandom when it came to masculinity servicing femininity. Cause ER was "across from a woman who looked at [them] like [they] hung the moon, and [they] looked at her like she hung the moon". It's the point of the feminine being worshipped by the masculine, and ER was getting the light from Cat's shine. Basically saying to the boys, men who treat women with respect, kisses the ground she walks on and are good to women, that's attractive. The world doesn't move without women, so it's important for ER to make sure Cat feels good and feels joy, and not like shit.
Drew and ER are talking about why men just don't get women, like don't appreciate women. The toxic environment of boys looking up to toxic men that treat women horribly, being indoctrinated by them. They talk about boys seeking emotional validation from toxic masculinity. And they turn out to be toxic men who only look for sex and validation from women. ER mentions that in a queer environment, they're "pulling oil from the earth" not to demand something in return from women, but doing nothing but replenish the woman.
So with Cat, ER is there for her joy. They are there for her everything. They are there for her sex, her stories, her intelligence, all the "soul assets" she has. And they are working hard to "replenish that shit"
They talk about the feminine shining on the masculine. How masculinity is at its most beautiful when it's in service to femininity. ER mentions Grey's again as an example. How they got a leg up in the Grey's fandom when it came to masculinity servicing femininity. Cause ER was "across from a woman who looked at [them] like [they] hung the moon, and [they] looked at her like she hung the moon". It's the point of the feminine being worshipped by the masculine, and ER was getting the light from Cat's shine. Basically saying to the boys, men who treat women with respect, kisses the ground she walks on and are good to women, that's attractive. The world doesn't move without women, so it's important for ER to make sure Cat feels good and feels joy, and not like shit.
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Thank you so much for the summary!!Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 09:30Okay, some notable things to mention from the pod ep.
ER doesn't run lines with Cat cause they say it's a relationship destroyer. They said they did that in their last relationship and it was a disaster. They say it feels like when people correct your pronunciation. And the line partner might stop or disrupt your flow or throw in little minor details that was missed in the script. Their interpretation and your interpretation to a scene or script will be different. So it can lead to disagreements. It's just a hard process. So ER is like for the sake of their future with Cat, they don't run lines together.
A Grey's mention after that, about acting and how to respond to a scene partner and checking in on your own reactions when acting. This gets a little tricky to summarise, so bear with me. But ER mentions Grey's cause when they act, they pick out their acting "arc", their acting choices essentially for their character. They said they had intents to accomplish their acting choices and responses. But also "there's this little woman who's helping me accomplish it, but she's stealing all my attention". They don't name drop Cat, but the assumption is that "the little woman" is Cat.
ER also mentions how a lot of the times they're relying or making a decision to use their body language when acting. So then ER's responses and acting is based on how they were interacting with Cat, cause they're bouncing the energy between them off of her acting response. ER mentions how it feels "magnetic" between them and how they and Cat always had great chemistry anyway, so it wasn't hard to reciprocate whatever they were both throwing at each other acting wise.
Can I ask, when ER mentions “this little woman that steals all my attention” they were talking about Amelia from Kai’s perspective or they meant that they were distracted by Cat?
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To me, ER was talking about ER and Cat in the moment acting out a scene as Kai and Amelia. And their perspective acting as Kai. Drew and ER were talking about remembering lines but sometimes not remembering all the other lines. And Drew not always knowing how to act when she remembers others' lines. Her technique being remembering the flow of the conversation or scene instead of remembering the whole script line by line.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 10:35Thank you so much for the summary!!Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 09:30Okay, some notable things to mention from the pod ep.
ER doesn't run lines with Cat cause they say it's a relationship destroyer. They said they did that in their last relationship and it was a disaster. They say it feels like when people correct your pronunciation. And the line partner might stop or disrupt your flow or throw in little minor details that was missed in the script. Their interpretation and your interpretation to a scene or script will be different. So it can lead to disagreements. It's just a hard process. So ER is like for the sake of their future with Cat, they don't run lines together.
A Grey's mention after that, about acting and how to respond to a scene partner and checking in on your own reactions when acting. This gets a little tricky to summarise, so bear with me. But ER mentions Grey's cause when they act, they pick out their acting "arc", their acting choices essentially for their character. They said they had intents to accomplish their acting choices and responses. But also "there's this little woman who's helping me accomplish it, but she's stealing all my attention". They don't name drop Cat, but the assumption is that "the little woman" is Cat.
ER also mentions how a lot of the times they're relying or making a decision to use their body language when acting. So then ER's responses and acting is based on how they were interacting with Cat, cause they're bouncing the energy between them off of her acting response. ER mentions how it feels "magnetic" between them and how they and Cat always had great chemistry anyway, so it wasn't hard to reciprocate whatever they were both throwing at each other acting wise.
Can I ask, when ER mentions “this little woman that steals all my attention” they were talking about Amelia from Kai’s perspective or they meant that they were distracted by Cat?
So ER's jumping in and talking about their technique. Like them knowing their lines, knowing how they want to act it out, responding to someone else's acting with your own emotions while listening. So Grey's was the example they used. ER was working on Kai's arc, Cat (little woman) as Amelia was helping them accomplish it. So the "stealing all their attention" is referring to Amelia stealing all of Kai's attention in their arc.
ER does also talk about their body language acting as Kai to help with their arc. How they held their body towards Cat, with how they were presenting as if to say or signal to Cat "here's my work, and here I am coming towards you, like with only my head". Their body language conveying "you are pulling me away from something, so it feels magnetic". I took that to mean as Amelia being the centre of Kai's attention, away from their lab. Cause that was a core part of Kai's arc. ER also talks about their acting choice as Kai where they chose to stand mostly with their hands behind their back, cause they liked the idea of needing, having physical restraint. The body language mention was how ER got their acting point across, cause line delivery doesn't always land. So they rely on body language and watching how their scene partner respond to it.
It's all a bit meta. The way ER sort of talks about it and leads into it is a little ambiguous as to who exactly they're referring to. But mainly I think ER was referring to and talking about their acting choices or techniques with Kai as an example. I don't know if that made it a bit clearer or confused you more. I'm sorry either way, I tried my best.
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You explained it perfectly!! Thank u sm again!!Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 11:10To me, ER was talking about ER and Cat in the moment acting out a scene as Kai and Amelia. And their perspective acting as Kai. Drew and ER were talking about remembering lines but sometimes not remembering all the other lines. And Drew not always knowing how to act when she remembers others' lines. Her technique being remembering the flow of the conversation or scene instead of remembering the whole script line by line.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 10:35Thank you so much for the summary!!Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 09:30Okay, some notable things to mention from the pod ep.
ER doesn't run lines with Cat cause they say it's a relationship destroyer. They said they did that in their last relationship and it was a disaster. They say it feels like when people correct your pronunciation. And the line partner might stop or disrupt your flow or throw in little minor details that was missed in the script. Their interpretation and your interpretation to a scene or script will be different. So it can lead to disagreements. It's just a hard process. So ER is like for the sake of their future with Cat, they don't run lines together.
A Grey's mention after that, about acting and how to respond to a scene partner and checking in on your own reactions when acting. This gets a little tricky to summarise, so bear with me. But ER mentions Grey's cause when they act, they pick out their acting "arc", their acting choices essentially for their character. They said they had intents to accomplish their acting choices and responses. But also "there's this little woman who's helping me accomplish it, but she's stealing all my attention". They don't name drop Cat, but the assumption is that "the little woman" is Cat.
ER also mentions how a lot of the times they're relying or making a decision to use their body language when acting. So then ER's responses and acting is based on how they were interacting with Cat, cause they're bouncing the energy between them off of her acting response. ER mentions how it feels "magnetic" between them and how they and Cat always had great chemistry anyway, so it wasn't hard to reciprocate whatever they were both throwing at each other acting wise.
Can I ask, when ER mentions “this little woman that steals all my attention” they were talking about Amelia from Kai’s perspective or they meant that they were distracted by Cat?
So ER's jumping in and talking about their technique. Like them knowing their lines, knowing how they want to act it out, responding to someone else's acting with your own emotions while listening. So Grey's was the example they used. ER was working on Kai's arc, Cat (little woman) as Amelia was helping them accomplish it. So the "stealing all their attention" is referring to Amelia stealing all of Kai's attention in their arc.
ER does also talk about their body language acting as Kai to help with their arc. How they held their body towards Cat, with how they were presenting as if to say or signal to Cat "here's my work, and here I am coming towards you, like with only my head". Their body language conveying "you are pulling me away from something, so it feels magnetic". I took that to mean as Amelia being the centre of Kai's attention, away from their lab. Cause that was a core part of Kai's arc. ER also talks about their acting choice as Kai where they chose to stand mostly with their hands behind their back, cause they liked the idea of needing, having physical restraint. The body language mention was how ER got their acting point across, cause line delivery doesn't always land. So they rely on body language and watching how their scene partner respond to it.
It's all a bit meta. The way ER sort of talks about it and leads into it is a little ambiguous as to who exactly they're referring to. But mainly I think ER was referring to and talking about their acting choices or techniques with Kai as an example. I don't know if that made it a bit clearer or confused you more. I'm sorry either way, I tried my best.
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Thanks so much for the link to the pod and especially to the person who did the great summary.
I literally woke up this morning thinking it’s been some days so could be time for a new episode with E.R as a guest and then I come on here and see the link so you made my day


I like the pod and could have listened to it longer 
Just curios didn’t E.R refer to their partner as “the little woman” before and yes I know you can use that to more then one person but it’s funny that they use the exact same expression for Caterina being their screen-partner on the greys set. Of course we know their partner is Cat and people who don’t know or still think/believe Cat is married
wouldn’t get the reference using the same words for their RL partner and their screen-partner 
I follow Dylan and look at all her story’s but never saw her mentioning that E.R would be on her pod so curios how to you know they will be a guest (of course I hope they will unfortunately they are not on the one that was published today)

I literally woke up this morning thinking it’s been some days so could be time for a new episode with E.R as a guest and then I come on here and see the link so you made my day
Just curios didn’t E.R refer to their partner as “the little woman” before and yes I know you can use that to more then one person but it’s funny that they use the exact same expression for Caterina being their screen-partner on the greys set. Of course we know their partner is Cat and people who don’t know or still think/believe Cat is married
I follow Dylan and look at all her story’s but never saw her mentioning that E.R would be on her pod so curios how to you know they will be a guest (of course I hope they will unfortunately they are not on the one that was published today)
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No matter how much you don't like other cast members being brought up OP is right. Cat just is never going to leave on her own volition and because she doesn't cause trouble on set I doubt she's going to get fired either. So in the conversation of which cast member is going to leave it just makes sense that it would be Ellen because of everything OP listed or honestly maybe James just because of how old he is. I mean the man is 70Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 02:22lol it’s that hard to figure out who they wanted to discussGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 02:16What is wrong with what the other anon said?Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:21okayGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 01:08Everybody always talks about cat leaving the show and I was just sort of idly thinking about it and honestly if any cast member was to leave on their own volition before the end of the show I feel like it would be Ellen before it would be cat. I know that sounds crazy because it would be Grey's Anatomy without Grey in it but hear me out please. she already has her foot partly out the door by only being an eight episodes for the past two or three seasons now plus she has a taste of what a post-greys world might look like for her already because she's on the press tour right now for good American family. She actually has a show other that Grey's under her belt recently now whereas cat doesn't.
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Thank you for the great summary, indeed. And such posts did not only summarize the wonderful topics ER talked about but also how you captured ER beautiful mind. Particularly that topic how they live for Caterina and does things with her in mind (remind me of an old song by Bryan Adams.. everything I do I do it for you). and how they worked so hard for the LA show to maximize their fans’ experience. 
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Hollywood reporter article that announced Dylan’s podcast listed ER as an anticipated guest. The post is also on Dylan’s ig.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:10Thanks so much for the link to the pod and especially to the person who did the great summary.![]()
I literally woke up this morning thinking it’s been some days so could be time for a new episode with E.R as a guest and then I come on here and see the link so you made my dayI like the pod and could have listened to it longer
Just curios didn’t E.R refer to their partner as “the little woman” before and yes I know you can use that to more then one person but it’s funny that they use the exact same expression for Caterina being their screen-partner on the greys set. Of course we know their partner is Cat and people who don’t know or still think/believe Cat is marriedwouldn’t get the reference using the same words for their RL partner and their screen-partner
I follow Dylan and look at all her story’s but never saw her mentioning that E.R would be on her pod so curios how to you know they will be a guest (of course I hope they will unfortunately they are not on the one that was published today)
The pod today was great! I love Drew anyway, and also loved when ER was on her podcast last time.
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If there are 2 people I am certain are sticking it out to the end it’s Chandra and JamesGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:20No matter how much you don't like other cast members being brought up OP is right. Cat just is never going to leave on her own volition and because she doesn't cause trouble on set I doubt she's going to get fired either. So in the conversation of which cast member is going to leave it just makes sense that it would be Ellen because of everything OP listed or honestly maybe James just because of how old he is. I mean the man is 70
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Loved the pod today! Thanks to whoever shared the link.
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Thanks I found it. Hopefully it will come out soon but also it’s not to bad it wasn’t today so we can enjoy the one with Drew today and the one with Dylan another WednesdayGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:26Hollywood reporter article that announced Dylan’s podcast listed ER as an anticipated guest. The post is also on Dylan’s ig.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:10Thanks so much for the link to the pod and especially to the person who did the great summary.![]()
I literally woke up this morning thinking it’s been some days so could be time for a new episode with E.R as a guest and then I come on here and see the link so you made my dayI like the pod and could have listened to it longer
Just curios didn’t E.R refer to their partner as “the little woman” before and yes I know you can use that to more then one person but it’s funny that they use the exact same expression for Caterina being their screen-partner on the greys set. Of course we know their partner is Cat and people who don’t know or still think/believe Cat is marriedwouldn’t get the reference using the same words for their RL partner and their screen-partner
I follow Dylan and look at all her story’s but never saw her mentioning that E.R would be on her pod so curios how to you know they will be a guest (of course I hope they will unfortunately they are not on the one that was published today)
The pod today was great! I love Drew anyway, and also loved when ER was on her podcast last time.
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ER has referred to their partner as "little lady" and "tiny little thing" before. And has also referred to Cat as Amelia as "powerful little neurosurgeon" before as well. They may well even call her that in real life, they tweeted about it once in response to a fan. Could just be a joke. But they've never called her "little woman" previously I don't think. But someone correct me if I'm terribly wrong.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:10Thanks so much for the link to the pod and especially to the person who did the great summary.![]()
I literally woke up this morning thinking it’s been some days so could be time for a new episode with E.R as a guest and then I come on here and see the link so you made my dayI like the pod and could have listened to it longer
Just curios didn’t E.R refer to their partner as “the little woman” before and yes I know you can use that to more then one person but it’s funny that they use the exact same expression for Caterina being their screen-partner on the greys set. Of course we know their partner is Cat and people who don’t know or still think/believe Cat is marriedwouldn’t get the reference using the same words for their RL partner and their screen-partner
I follow Dylan and look at all her story’s but never saw her mentioning that E.R would be on her pod so curios how to you know they will be a guest (of course I hope they will unfortunately they are not on the one that was published today)
On the pod, ER was referring to Cat as Amelia when they said "little woman", not Cat their partner. ER has referred to Cat, either as Amelia or as their partner, as being little since the beginning
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Yeah James and Chandra are probably going to be there til the very end. They started with this show, and they said they'll stay with it until it ends. I can also see the other vets like Camilla, Kevin and Cat sticking out til the end too. Vets like Kevin is happy doing one or two side quests and projects during breaks. So I can't see someone like him leaving on his own free will. But I think Cat will stick it out til the very end too. She loves the show and more importantly Amelia too much to just leave without a real good reason.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:29If there are 2 people I am certain are sticking it out to the end it’s Chandra and JamesGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:20No matter how much you don't like other cast members being brought up OP is right. Cat just is never going to leave on her own volition and because she doesn't cause trouble on set I doubt she's going to get fired either. So in the conversation of which cast member is going to leave it just makes sense that it would be Ellen because of everything OP listed or honestly maybe James just because of how old he is. I mean the man is 70
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Enjoyed the pod with Drew, as always. Looking forward to ER being on Dylan's pod soon-ish(?). Or just more pod appearances by ER in general in the near future.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:33Loved the pod today! Thanks to whoever shared the link.
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I'm interested to see how long the show lasts because it kind of seems like it's winding down slowly between only having Ellen in eight episodes a season for the past 2-3 seasons and not having the vets in every single episode when there's only 18 episodes per season now.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 15:15Yeah James and Chandra are probably going to be there til the very end. They started with this show, and they said they'll stay with it until it ends. I can also see the other vets like Camilla, Kevin and Cat sticking out til the end too. Vets like Kevin is happy doing one or two side quests and projects during breaks. So I can't see someone like him leaving on his own free will. But I think Cat will stick it out til the very end too. She loves the show and more importantly Amelia too much to just leave without a real good reason.Guest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:29If there are 2 people I am certain are sticking it out to the end it’s Chandra and JamesGuest wrote: ↑02 Apr 2025, 14:20No matter how much you don't like other cast members being brought up OP is right. Cat just is never going to leave on her own volition and because she doesn't cause trouble on set I doubt she's going to get fired either. So in the conversation of which cast member is going to leave it just makes sense that it would be Ellen because of everything OP listed or honestly maybe James just because of how old he is. I mean the man is 70
I want to say I give it one maybe two more seasons but it would be kind of cool to see them go get to 500 episodes and to achieve that they would have to do 25 seasons but have the 25th and last season only be 8 episodes long if they wanted to stop at 500 even.
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