What Exactly Is Your Type?

[Guest]

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Sure, why not? Worst case scenario we talk for five minutes and never again LOL

I guess I'll have to make an account...

Well, that escalated fast. Now you and all the anons here have my username.

If that's your worst case scenario, I hope you enjoy those five min.

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Not feeling exposed AT ALL rn

LOL I can definitely say I wasn't expecting this when I woke up this morning.

What is your worst case scenario? Also I made an account I'm just waiting for approval. After that I presume I could DM you?

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Me too, sort of. I can just imagine random lesbians reading our conversation at their computer...

Back at guest mode

I don't remember how long took to get my account approved. I gave you my user so you can DM me, I'll be checking.

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My worst case scenario would be giving my info to a man that's trolling.

Oh, and ofc they're reading and judging, this is TLC

It's too late, everyone saw your username Also you're right, that is a worst case scenario. I was going by what could happen presuming we talk and something blows up. You know, I actually made a friend about 10 years ago on a writing website. We still FaceTime and send postcards to this day.

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How long have you been here? I see at least two years

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Ik and it doesn't help with feeling exposed lol
I've been here on and off for years, I think I discovered this place when I was a teenager but I've never engaged for too long. I'm not an active user either, I just read and comment on some threads from time to time and that's all, but I have my moments... like now

[Guest]

I don't think I have a type but my ideal woman would be someone who's not a butch or too masc, with the same core values and principles, kind, curious, loving, patient, respectful and supportive.
If she cooks, trains, likes to go to the theatre and museum and laughs at silly stuff, she's my perfect girl.

[Guest]

My type is the most stereotypical lesbian like Kate Moennig, Ruby Rose, Tasya van Ree, etc.

You must not have problems dating then

Considering that most women are fairly feminine, even lesbians, I’d say she has a hard time.

[Guest]

My type is the most stereotypical lesbian like Kate Moennig, Ruby Rose, Tasya van Ree, etc.

You must not have problems dating then

Considering that most women are fairly feminine, even lesbians, I’d say she has a hard time.

Most lesbians are tomboy.

[Guest]

Idk if this is bad but I have no idea if I’m femme, butch, or a tomboy. I don’t use makeup often only on rare occasions and I usually get another women to put it on my face because I have no idea how to do it. My mom never taught me to use makeup and I just grew up without using it. I have long beautiful hair but I can’t be bothered with it, so I just tie it. I’m not into sports or exercising I just walk a lot and eat very healthy, so I’m like average weight but my body is feminine, I have big boobs and butt and hips. Men are very attracted to me and women say I’m very attractive but I still have no idea what iam. And I’m only into women similar to me. Idk how to define myself or the women I like. The only thing for certain is that I’m a lesbian lol.

Can we make friends?

Yes we can

[Guesthhh]

I want a girl who has positive attitude, who gives me positive energy and good vibes. I have melancholic personality, I need someone with bright, shinny, radiant personality who puts colors in my world. Not too extrovert because it could drain my energy very quickly.
A beautiful girl, with beautiful smile, beautiful eyes. Someone I can feel safe and vulnerable, someone who can put smile on my face, who can look at my soul through her eyes. An old soul and easy to live. A dreamer and a doer. Someone who can be a partner in many things in life.

[DazzlingNova]

I want a girl who has positive attitude, who gives me positive energy and good vibes. I have melancholic personality, I need someone with bright, shinny, radiant personality who puts colors in my world. Not too extrovert because it could drain my energy very quickly.
A beautiful girl, with beautiful smile, beautiful eyes. Someone I can feel safe and vulnerable, someone who can put smile on my face, who can look at my soul through her eyes. An old soul and easy to live. A dreamer and a doer. Someone who can be a partner in many things in life.

I like your post anon I have a similar personality to yours and want to be able to be that way with someone as well one day. The way I live my life would be considered quite boring by several people, which is fine because that's their opinion, but I do look for women who are exciting, colorful as you say, and a bit adventurous, but not overly adventurous if that makes sense, and similar to some of the other qualifies that you look for in a woman. I wish you luck in finding a woman that's a dreamer and a doer. I've met ones who are doers, but I've very rarely crossed paths with ones who are dreamers.

[Guest]

With iceblue eyes
Sanguine temperament
Around my height
Nice boobs not big
Nice feet
Soft skin
Tease
Nice taste in music
Maybe a Libra

[Guest]

Butch and in shape. I also like someone that likes their own space as much as I do.

[Guest]

Dark hair
Blue eyes
Looks yummy in her dark blue polo shirt ❤

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Appearance:
I don't have a set type looks wise, but I do have a weakness for blondes with brown eyes. I also really like curvy women.

Characteristics:
- Smart, funny, witty, up for trying new things, understanding, compassionate, not afraid to speak her mind, not overly concerned with what others think.

[Guest]

Not a femme
Vegan

[Guest]

https://www.tiktok.com/@bhriannachanell ... 5424710954

[Spanish (Catalan) girl]

MY DESCRIPTION

I'm Spanish (from Spain, not Latina).

I'm short (I'm barely 1,60).

I'm thin.

I have brown straight hair always up with a ponytail.

I have white skin.

I have brown eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm very feminine. I hate make up and a lot of perfumes but I really love dresses and skirts. I almost always wear these clothes. I don't like show my body.

I'm bisexual (women preference).

I'm 27 y/o and I'm autistic (Asperger).

I'm really introverted, shy and lonely (but it has never been a problem for me).

I don't want children.

I consider myself a noble, naive and sensitive person with a rather weak character.

I also consider myself a rather conservative.

I really love history, art (Greek, Roman and from the Middle Ages) and religions.

I don't like parties, discos, clubs, smoking or drinking. Zero.




MY IDEAL WOMAN:


Very preferably Spanish too.

Very tall (1,80, 1,85, 1,90). 🫠 It's not very easy to find such tall women in Spain, but even if they're a minority, there are some, so even if it's more difficult it's not impossible either.

Fat (overweight, obviously no extremely and insanely obese), I love abundant curves and a really bigger woman than me in height and weight.

With big and rough hands and fingers that I would to compare at every moment with my very thin and delicate ones with pianist fingers. Feeling hands like that caressing me and touching all my thin and delicate body in the intimity must be the best.

Long brown or black and straight or wavy hair.

White skin.
(I hope it's understood that I don't pretend to sound racist, which I'm radically anti. Are just preferences and have nothing to do with it).

Brown eyes.

With glasses and a «nerd» face.

With a peculiar and at the same time beautiful sunrise.

Neither masculine nor feminine, fifty fifty. That doesn't show her body and dresses and looks discrete, not provocative, informal, relaxed. That she isn't crazy for fashion and shopping at all. That she doesn't use make up. However, at the same time that wear some discreetly sensual garment or footwear: tight jeans, platform sneakers and platform (also heel if it's possible) and leather boots, sandals or flip flops... (I have a serious fetish with these footwear ).



From what I see (especially in other people's opinions), I'm not attracted to conventionally "attractive" women, nor are they the typical ones that highlight or that everyone admire and is crazy for them. But for me, a woman as I describe her is more than Miss Universe and that's the most important thing, that she attracts me.



I don't care if younger or older, maturity is what matters.

Noble, sensitive, sentimental, romantic and at the same time with strong character.

Protective and dominant.

Strong while I'm weak.

Mature, that she knows what she wants.

Obviously monogamous and that she wants a serious relationship.

Skeptical with the current feminism, poliamorous, promiscuity and another postmodern ideologies.

That she doesn't want children (if she's young and hasn't already had children a years ago from previous relationship for example, it can happens too ).

Hard working.

Independent.

Intelligent, cultured.

That she doesn't like partying, smoking or drinking either.



However, what I've had so far has been nothing more than platonic crushes. I really have no luck.

The first time was with a lesbian four years older than me, but I didn't know how to manage it well, it all ended very badly and I was psychologically very affected (obsession and limerence (OCD), emocional dependance, anxiety, depression). I needed medication and a lot of psychological help to get out of the abyss I was in.

And now, finally, I'm really crushed with a straight woman, married with children and almost twenty years older than me. In my eyes, she's really beautiful, sweet and sensual, really a goddess. Even so, there has come a time when, if I only have to be in love platonically, I have learned to keep my distance and talk to her as little as possible because already following the previous experience, I am very afraid of making the slightest mistake and then sink back into depression. It's nice to be platonically in love. I am more than content to admire her and feel everything I feel for her from the distance.

[Guest]

tomboyish femme
versatile but leaning more toward top

[Guest]

Her

[Spanish (Catalan) girl]

MY DESCRIPTION

I'm Spanish (from Spain, not Latina).

I'm short (I'm barely 1,60).

I'm thin.

I have brown straight hair always up with a ponytail.

I have white skin.

I have brown eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm very feminine. I hate make up and a lot of perfumes but I really love dresses and skirts. I almost always wear these clothes. I don't like show my body.

I'm bisexual (women preference).

I'm 27 y/o and I'm autistic (Asperger).

I'm really introverted, shy and lonely (but it has never been a problem for me).

I don't want children.

I consider myself a noble, naive and sensitive person with a rather weak character.

I also consider myself a rather conservative.

I really love history, art (Greek, Roman and from the Middle Ages) and religions.

I don't like parties, discos, clubs, smoking or drinking. Zero.




MY IDEAL WOMAN:


Very preferably Spanish too.

Very tall (1,80, 1,85, 1,90). 🫠 It's not very easy to find such tall women in Spain, but even if they're a minority, there are some, so even if it's more difficult it's not impossible either.

Fat (overweight, obviously no extremely and insanely obese), I love abundant curves and a really bigger woman than me in height and weight.

With big and rough hands and fingers that I would to compare at every moment with my very thin and delicate ones with pianist fingers. Feeling hands like that caressing me and touching all my thin and delicate body in the intimity must be the best.

Long brown or black and straight or wavy hair.

White skin.
(I hope it's understood that I don't pretend to sound racist, which I'm radically anti. Are just preferences and have nothing to do with it).

Brown eyes.

With glasses and a «nerd» face.

With a peculiar and at the same time beautiful sunrise.

Neither masculine nor feminine, fifty fifty. That doesn't show her body and dresses and looks discrete, not provocative, informal, relaxed. That she isn't crazy for fashion and shopping at all. That she doesn't use make up. However, at the same time that wear some discreetly sensual garment or footwear: tight jeans, platform sneakers and platform (also heel if it's possible) and leather boots, sandals or flip flops... (I have a serious fetish with these footwear ).



From what I see (especially in other people's opinions), I'm not attracted to conventionally "attractive" women, nor are they the typical ones that highlight or that everyone admire and is crazy for them. But for me, a woman as I describe her is more than Miss Universe and that's the most important thing, that she attracts me.



I don't care if younger or older, maturity is what matters.

Noble, sensitive, sentimental, romantic and at the same time with strong character.

Protective and dominant.

Strong while I'm weak.

Mature, that she knows what she wants.

Obviously monogamous and that she wants a serious relationship.

Skeptical with the current feminism, poliamorous, promiscuity and another postmodern ideologies.

That she doesn't want children (if she's young and hasn't already had children a years ago from previous relationship for example, it can happens too ).

Hard working.

Independent.

Intelligent, cultured.

That she doesn't like partying, smoking or drinking either.



However, what I've had so far has been nothing more than platonic crushes. I really have no luck.

The first time was with a lesbian four years older than me, but I didn't know how to manage it well, it all ended very badly and I was psychologically very affected (obsession and limerence (OCD), emocional dependance, anxiety, depression). I needed medication and a lot of psychological help to get out of the abyss I was in.

And now, finally, I'm really crushed with a straight woman, married with children and almost twenty years older than me. In my eyes, she's really beautiful, sweet and sensual, really a goddess. Even so, there has come a time when, if I only have to be in love platonically, I have learned to keep my distance and talk to her as little as possible because already following the previous experience, I am very afraid of making the slightest mistake and then sink back into depression. It's nice to be platonically in love. I am more than content to admire her and feel everything I feel for her from the distance.

Note: as a bisexual person, i am more than aware that there are more people who claim to be bisexual because they think it's «cool», for simple confusion/curiousity, promiscuity, trios with bf (I can't stand with this ), etc. than who really are. Is for this reasons that bisexual people we're not taken seriously and I can't stand with this and makes me angry.

Another note: I've never had any romantic or sexual experiences. I've had opportunities, but I've refused. I want to experience something like this with someone to whom I feel attracted and whom I REALLY love. I can't conceive sex without love and a strong bond.

Since I have use of reason, I always strongly want to live something like this with a woman just as I've described her

[Spanish (Catalan) girl]

I like powerful women. Athletes, fighters, soldiers, firefighters. doesn't have to be necessarily physically powerful. I just like boss women ??

Me too. If they are my type, of course

It gives me a true strong, powerful and empowered woman vibes.

[Guest]

Fem (but doesn't need to be girly), a bit weird (or really weird, I don't mind), either curvy or athletic (basically, just not super skinny), chatty, mentally strong (unlike me), compassionate.

Also, these days, I find myself going less and less for white women (I'm a POC). It's not on purpose, but I wonder if I'm developping a emotional preference for people who have that kind of understanding.

[duhaz]

Cari Fletcher.... she's so crazy but also crazy-attractive. I even love her slutty energy

[Guest]

New type unlocked: target shooters
https://x.com/Psittacus_tutor/status/18 ... ilYhA&s=19

Thanks, Olympics!

[Fun]

Fun, interesting type of person. Kind inside but a bit wild and unpredictable outside sometimes. But not. Not untamable though. Just out there. Weirder the better. I love paradox type of girls.

Is that toxic?

[Guest]

Zubalenok on instagram is my type.

[Guest]

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feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

[Guest1977]

Her

Honestly, I do also admire the women here that can get their point across with few words!

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

op here

if that's what you like then you do you

i think i know how to please women, i'm very passionate and i've always been very instinctive in that department and the "results" have been above average. i didn't need to sleep with a ton of people in order to do so. but there are people, who need that - which is totally fine.

i'm mildly ocd, so there are a few things that trigger me hard. promiscuity is one of those things. i just don't want it for myself and my partner.

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

op

i also haven't slept with tons of people.

i just don't want to lol

i need emotional stimulation and trust is also must. sex, for me, is not possible without these.

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

This is an excellent list. With one exception: I'm not attracted to Koreans though.

I've seen all these suitable qualities in one amazing and lovely woman. She's also highly intelligent, very much accomplished, and she's beautiful.

[Guest]

Is a woman, has 2 hands and legs, a head, non ugly.

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

This is an excellent list. With one exception: I'm not attracted to Koreans though.

I've seen all these suitable qualities in one amazing and lovely woman. She's also highly intelligent, very much accomplished, and she's beautiful.

op

hi

highly intelligent people are hot as hell! btw. are you pursuing that person? more power to you

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

This is an excellent list. With one exception: I'm not attracted to Koreans though.

I've seen all these suitable qualities in one amazing and lovely woman. She's also highly intelligent, very much accomplished, and she's beautiful.

op

hi

highly intelligent people are hot as hell! btw. are you pursuing that person? more power to you

Hello

It's funny you asked, and thanks.

Forgive me for saying this: there's nothing more boring or sad than an attractive person who doesn't stimulate or excite you intellectually. She doesn't have to be a genius, but she must have the brains at least. And I like a woman with a strong and engaging personality. Think Jodie Foster.

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

This is an excellent list. With one exception: I'm not attracted to Koreans though.

I've seen all these suitable qualities in one amazing and lovely woman. She's also highly intelligent, very much accomplished, and she's beautiful.

op

hi

highly intelligent people are hot as hell! btw. are you pursuing that person? more power to you

Hello

It's funny you asked, and thanks.

Forgive me for saying this: there's nothing more boring or sad than an attractive person who doesn't stimulate or excite you intellectually. She doesn't have to be a genius, but she must have the brains at least. And I like a woman with a strong and engaging personality. Think Jodie Foster.

so true!!

jodie is such a great example. i remember watching a yt video of hers where she was talking in several languages and i was like

intelligence and a good attitude make a woman extremely powerful imo.

and like you said, she doesn't need to be a genius.

i prefer to be on my toes intellectually, if you know what i mean. nothing is more exciting than a person, who's horizon is broader than yours. it's at least the case for me

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

This is an excellent list. With one exception: I'm not attracted to Koreans though.

I've seen all these suitable qualities in one amazing and lovely woman. She's also highly intelligent, very much accomplished, and she's beautiful.

op

hi

highly intelligent people are hot as hell! btw. are you pursuing that person? more power to you

Hello

It's funny you asked, and thanks.

Forgive me for saying this: there's nothing more boring or sad than an attractive person who doesn't stimulate or excite you intellectually. She doesn't have to be a genius, but she must have the brains at least. And I like a woman with a strong and engaging personality. Think Jodie Foster.

so true!!

jodie is such a great example. i remember watching a yt video of hers where she was talking in several languages and i was like

intelligence and a good attitude make a woman extremely powerful imo.

and like you said, she doesn't need to be a genius.

i prefer to be on my toes intellectually, if you know what i mean. nothing is more exciting than a person, who's horizon is broader than yours. it's at least the case for me

Add in beauty and a kind heart, then I'm a goner. I'm gonna swoon 'til eternity.

That kind of woman just melts my heart. Sigh.

Those '90s and '00s YT videos of Jodie are peak examples of her attributes and prowess. So charming, beautiful, classy, and eloquent.

[Guest]

This is an excellent list. With one exception: I'm not attracted to Koreans though.

I've seen all these suitable qualities in one amazing and lovely woman. She's also highly intelligent, very much accomplished, and she's beautiful.

op

hi

highly intelligent people are hot as hell! btw. are you pursuing that person? more power to you

Hello

It's funny you asked, and thanks.

Forgive me for saying this: there's nothing more boring or sad than an attractive person who doesn't stimulate or excite you intellectually. She doesn't have to be a genius, but she must have the brains at least. And I like a woman with a strong and engaging personality. Think Jodie Foster.

so true!!

jodie is such a great example. i remember watching a yt video of hers where she was talking in several languages and i was like

intelligence and a good attitude make a woman extremely powerful imo.

and like you said, she doesn't need to be a genius.

i prefer to be on my toes intellectually, if you know what i mean. nothing is more exciting than a person, who's horizon is broader than yours. it's at least the case for me

Add in beauty and a kind heart, then I'm a goner. I'm gonna swoon 'til eternity.

That kind of woman just melts my heart. Sigh.

Those '90s and '00s YT videos of Jodie are peak examples of her attributes and prowess. So charming, beautiful, classy, and eloquent.

we'd swoon together lol

but in all honesty, i think finding a woman with those attributes is like finding a unicorn (your crush is an exception, of course )

it's also important to not lower ones standards. i'd rather not be in a relationship at all than be in one halfheartedly or just for sexual purposes.

i'm glad you mentioned the 90s. is it just me or were women back then really that much more attractive?

[Guest]

feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

You see, I prefer a woman who desires sex with or without emotional connection. Demisexuality is kind of a turn off for me.

[Guest]

Personality wise, I tend to like more A-type, dominant women. Although I don't like unnecessary drama, I just want a woman who can take control I like smart, emotional mature, mellow A-types I guess. I quite enjoy a woman who can be a little bitchy from time to time, just because I find it funny. Not a bitch, just a little bitchy sometimes, a woman who can gently tease me

Looks wise I like darker features, thick dark hair, darker eyes, olive skin. A typical kind of 'Mediterranean' type, Spanish, Italian, Greek looking.

[Guest]

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feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

You see, I prefer a woman who desires sex with or without emotional connection. Demisexuality is kind of a turn off for me.
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if that fulfills you then great

glad you mentioned the desire for sex part.

it's crucial that my (ideal) partner desires sex.

there is just something irresistible about a woman who shows you her desire and excitement for sex.

eye-contact and body language play a huge part.

that's why the emotional aspect is so important to me. i need to feel connected.

for me, physical intimacy or sex for that matter is only possible after i'm spiritually and emotionally connected to that person.

[Guest]

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feminine energy is a MUST..the right kind of attitude is what attracts me the most.

clean

independent

organized

sexually disciplined (people who slept with tons of people are a big turn off).

small boobs

reliable

good manners

should believe in god / higher power

preferably not overweight

i find korean women very attractive but i'm open to all ethnicities.

I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

You see, I prefer a woman who desires sex with or without emotional connection. Demisexuality is kind of a turn off for me.

if that fulfills you then great

glad you mentioned the desire for sex part.

it's crucial that my (ideal) partner desires sex.

there is just something irresistible about a woman who shows you her desire and excitement for sex.

eye-contact and body language play a huge part.

that's why the emotional aspect is so important to me. i need to feel connected.

for me, physical intimacy or sex for that matter is only possible after i'm spiritually and emotionally connected to that person.
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I'm definitely not like that. Yes sex is different and more meaningful after you established emotional connection. But when I see a hot woman I desire her from the first gaze, I could have sex with her right away.

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I am in contrary attracted to women who are sexually active (with women obviously), it means a lot of women desire them, they have a guaranteed high sex drive, they have a lot of experience and know how to please women.

Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

You see, I prefer a woman who desires sex with or without emotional connection. Demisexuality is kind of a turn off for me.

if that fulfills you then great

glad you mentioned the desire for sex part.

it's crucial that my (ideal) partner desires sex.

there is just something irresistible about a woman who shows you her desire and excitement for sex.

eye-contact and body language play a huge part.

that's why the emotional aspect is so important to me. i need to feel connected.

for me, physical intimacy or sex for that matter is only possible after i'm spiritually and emotionally connected to that person.

I'm definitely not like that. Yes sex is different and more meaningful after you established emotional connection. But when I see a hot woman I desire her from the first gaze, I could have sex with her right away.
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would you be able to have a relationship with her or would it be a onenightstand?

i have friends that have similar views (like you) but they don't do relationships, that's why i'm asking.

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Women who don't sleep with a lot of other women doesn't mean we don't have a high sex drive

Experience with one woman doesn't mean you'll know how to please the other... Some women don't get off the same way

The above basically describes me, but I haven't slept with a bunch of women because I need that emotional connection to even want to have sex

You see, I prefer a woman who desires sex with or without emotional connection. Demisexuality is kind of a turn off for me.

if that fulfills you then great

glad you mentioned the desire for sex part.

it's crucial that my (ideal) partner desires sex.

there is just something irresistible about a woman who shows you her desire and excitement for sex.

eye-contact and body language play a huge part.

that's why the emotional aspect is so important to me. i need to feel connected.

for me, physical intimacy or sex for that matter is only possible after i'm spiritually and emotionally connected to that person.

I'm definitely not like that. Yes sex is different and more meaningful after you established emotional connection. But when I see a hot woman I desire her from the first gaze, I could have sex with her right away.

would you be able to have a relationship with her or would it be a onenightstand?

i have friends that have similar views (like you) but they don't do relationships, that's why i'm asking.
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I would most likely not have a real relationship with her, but not because I don't do relationships. Most likely we would just not have matching personalities, it's not easy to find that.

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Femme
An inch or two taller than me or same height
Kind
Touchy/affectionate
Hygienic
Laid back to balance out me being uptight and anxious
Doesn’t want kids
Skin/hair/eye color I don’t have a particular preference for
Normal weight or slender
Likes cats
Not religious
Anti-trans or at least not supportive of that shit (sadly many lesbians are)

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- Dominant femme/stemme
- Well read and intellectually curious
- Wicked sense of humor and banter
- Fit/sportive, slim but not too skinny
- Ambitious with career plans and goals
- Good communication and social skills
- Self-aware with moral compass
- Smart about saving money/financially stable
- Wants children
- Medium to tall
- Long dark hair
- Darker in skin tone (Black/African, Southeast Asian, Latina)
- Preferably older (by 5-15 years)
- Chic sense of fashion

[Guest]

- Dominant femme/stemme
- Well read and intellectually curious
- Wicked sense of humor and banter
- Fit/sportive, slim but not too skinny
- Ambitious with career plans and goals
- Good communication and social skills
- Self-aware with moral compass
- Smart about saving money/financially stable
- Wants children
- Medium to tall
- Long dark hair
- Darker in skin tone (Black/African, Southeast Asian, Latina)
- Preferably older (by 5-15 years)
- Chic sense of fashion

You wish You were her

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a woman with a pulse that is breathing.

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i am a very outdoorsy woman and my ideal woman would have to be physically fit. i don't mean super lean or visibly very muscular, just that you can tell she is strong and has endurance. my favourite dates have always been things like cycling and hiking. being interested in women's sports would be a big bonus for me as well, but not necessary. she does have to enjoy nature and not mind getting her hands dirty.

i'm very blunt and value my privacy and having my own space and i have trouble thinking about how my words come across to others. for this reason, i'd also like a woman who is similarly blunt and doesn't get upset easily.

i also love freckles, curly hair and a strong scottish accent

i'm not into loads of makeup or jewellry and i'm not into FTMs