Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
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I find leg hair disgusting but for some reason i don't mind armpit hair.
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is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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SA. My point was to ask a question(s) and get an answer from the ones who want to answer. If you can't or don't want to answer, I will accept that, but how am I deranged for asking questions?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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I always thought I was the only one! I like armpit hair, pubic hair, chunky eyebrows, and a thick head of hair, but a full leg beard always looked strange to me. (Not to shame any woman who doesn't shave her legs, it's just my personal preference). Usually women only have leg hair on their lower legs and peach fuzz on their thighs. The contrast looks a little jarring imo. Maybe it wouldn't be a problem if she was hairy all over though.Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:24I find leg hair disgusting but for some reason i don't mind armpit hair.
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Da. Body hair preference ≠ high standards. They probably called you obsessive since you wrote a whole essay about it lol.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
As a goldstar lesbian, I shave everywhere in the summer (since I surf) and nowhere in the winter. I have no body hair preference for other women except for a bush down below.
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OMG, Bis have an unhealthy obsession with men. why lesbians should care if males show interest in femcel. and how much you are interesting is determined by how many men find you attractive. you know men show interest and fuck animals tooguest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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I didn't mean to say body hair preference = high standards. Whether you do or don't like body hair doesn't mean you have low or high standard. It is just a personal preference. I have a problem with going off on tangents and going on rants so my thoughts are not the most organized and English is not my first language. I probably have undiagnosed ADHD or something. Anyways, they accused me of being a femcel because I am bisexual who hasn't been with a male. I assumed they think the only possible reason a bisexual or straight woman would never have done anything willingly with a male is because no man wants them because they are so fugly. It is true for some women but I am not one of them plus there are other reasons why those women choose to abstain such as high standards, feminism, religion, prefer women, etc. That is what I meant by high standards.Guest wrote: ↑15 Apr 2022, 03:36Da. Body hair preference ≠ high standards. They probably called you obsessive since you wrote a whole essay about it lol.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
As a goldstar lesbian, I shave everywhere in the summer (since I surf) and nowhere in the winter. I have no body hair preference for other women except for a bush down below.
By the way, thank you for answering my original question.
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You just accused me of being a femcel which is associated with women who are considered so fugly that not even the horniest and nastiest of men would want to have sex with them. So I answered you accordingly. You should have expected an answer that dispelled that accusation of me being a femcel so it has nothing to do with an obsession with men. If I was so obsessed with men, I would have had sex with one by now. You say "why lesbians should care if males show interest in femcel" so why did you accuse me of being a femcel? If you don't know what femcel means, then you should find other ways to insult me that doesn't make you look stupid.guest wrote: ↑15 Apr 2022, 04:46OMG, Bis have an unhealthy obsession with men. why lesbians should care if males show interest in femcel. and how much you are interesting is determined by how many men find you attractive. you know men show interest and fuck animals tooguest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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I want to counter something that I regularly see on here and online: that supposedly there are more lesbians (goldstar is a given, there is only one kind of lesbian) in non-western countries.
This is another myth concocted by non western women who want to put western women down as a way to feel better about their shitty prospects.
The number of homosexual women is the same everywhere: between 0.7 and 1%
Lesbians exist everywhere and we are the same everywhere: we don’t want to sleep with men.
What’s different is the number of loud/out bisexuals who mislabel themselves as lesbians because of pornsickness/wish to titillate men/trauma, etc. That is different. And of course they aren’t loud in non western countries which tend to be more conservative and religious and where sexual promiscuity for women is frowned upon.
This is another myth concocted by non western women who want to put western women down as a way to feel better about their shitty prospects.
The number of homosexual women is the same everywhere: between 0.7 and 1%
Lesbians exist everywhere and we are the same everywhere: we don’t want to sleep with men.
What’s different is the number of loud/out bisexuals who mislabel themselves as lesbians because of pornsickness/wish to titillate men/trauma, etc. That is different. And of course they aren’t loud in non western countries which tend to be more conservative and religious and where sexual promiscuity for women is frowned upon.
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Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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DA "the anon that calls out fakebians"? I love how you idiots are obsessed with labeling lesbians that call out bisexuals "femcels", "men", "Trolls" and "freaks" etc., just cause you cant fathom the fact that we ALLLL can tell who is a fakebian/bislut and who isnt.Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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I never see non-western lesbians say that there are more lesbians in non-western countries. I've seen a lot of non-western lesbian say that if you come from a religious family, it is a lie if you say that you need to sleep with men to avoid being kicked out from house. Most religions forbid the followers from engaging in premarital sex. So where is the logic? And I think most bisexuals in non-western choose to live in a straight relationship.Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 10:22I want to counter something that I regularly see on here and online: that supposedly there are more lesbians (goldstar is a given, there is only one kind of lesbian) in non-western countries.
This is another myth concocted by non western women who want to put western women down as a way to feel better about their shitty prospects.
The number of homosexual women is the same everywhere: between 0.7 and 1%
Lesbians exist everywhere and we are the same everywhere: we don’t want to sleep with men.
What’s different is the number of loud/out bisexuals who mislabel themselves as lesbians because of pornsickness/wish to titillate men/trauma, etc. That is different. And of course, they aren’t loud in non-western countries which tend to be more conservative and religious and where sexual promiscuity for women is frowned upon.
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You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.Guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 20:52X2. Femcels tend to get obsessive over the weirdest thingsGuest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:42is this for real ? are you deranged ?Guest wrote: ↑13 Apr 2022, 21:01Is it common for goldstar/platinum lesbians to remove their body hair (leg hair, armpit hair, etc. except for head hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows)? I get the impression that most of the women, who claim to be lesbians but have willingly had sexual relations with males in the past (aka fakebians which include non-goldstars and political lesbians. Yeah, I know the non-goldstars will get triggered, but I believe actions speaks louder than words), used to remove their body hair to appease males but stop when they start identifying as lesbians. I always thought it was a way to deter males since males don't like body hair on women (which will help keep these fakebians male temptation at bay since they are not lesbians) and consider hairiness as a feminist statement. For goldstar/platinum lesbians, do you prefer your women hairy (unshaven) or hairless (shaven) and are you personally shaven or unshaven? And why? Is it due to feminist reasons, aesthetic reasons, laziness, etc. By the way, I am a bisexual female who hasn't done anything sexual not even a kiss with any male or female even through I am almost 21 (because my standards for males is very high probably "unreasonable" high according to most people and unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to find a woman who is interested in me). I personally shave because I want my potential significant other (whether male or female) to be fully shaven as well because it looks much nicer and less apelike. But I have gone unshaven sometimes because of laziness. I was just curious and wanted the perspective of a group that is not influenced by males due to their sexual orientation.
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x2Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.
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Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.
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That's BS. Lesbians make at least 5% I see them anywhere I turnGuest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 10:22I want to counter something that I regularly see on here and online: that supposedly there are more lesbians (goldstar is a given, there is only one kind of lesbian) in non-western countries.
This is another myth concocted by non western women who want to put western women down as a way to feel better about their shitty prospects.
The number of homosexual women is the same everywhere: between 0.7 and 1%
Lesbians exist everywhere and we are the same everywhere: we don’t want to sleep with men.
What’s different is the number of loud/out bisexuals who mislabel themselves as lesbians because of pornsickness/wish to titillate men/trauma, etc. That is different. And of course they aren’t loud in non western countries which tend to be more conservative and religious and where sexual promiscuity for women is frowned upon.
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Aren't you yourself invading a lesbian community right now?Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.
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da something that will always amaze me about bis, is how they manage to call a woman that advocates for Goldstars. i.e. lesbians not having sex with men, a man. like yes a man would totally advocate for no sex with menguest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
thelchat is a non-goldstar aka fakebian/bisexual community not a lesbian community because the majority of the members and guests here are not real lesbians. Apart from obvious trolls, it's even infested with TRAs who don't actually try to hide that they are TRAs. I believe even the founder(s) of this website are non-goldstars. I know of only one place that real lesbians go to and that is a private discord server that was founded and being maintained by real lesbians. To keep out the non-goldstars and anyone ese who isn't a real lesbian, you need to request an invited directly from the moderators that runs it and the name of the discord is not public. Obviously, I am not part of that discord server. They are the beginning of real lesbians trying to create a real lesbian community and actually doing the work to kick out anyone who isn't a real lesbian. I hope they succeed and this translates beyond discord, into other parts of the internet, and hopefully into real life.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 07:15Aren't you yourself invading a lesbian community right now?Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48
It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
DA. You're the one that sounds like a dude.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55
Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
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LolGuest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48
It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.
Now im even more sure you are a dude.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Lol. Where? At your softball club?Guesta wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 06:36That's BS. Lesbians make at least 5% I see them anywhere I turnGuest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 10:22I want to counter something that I regularly see on here and online: that supposedly there are more lesbians (goldstar is a given, there is only one kind of lesbian) in non-western countries.
This is another myth concocted by non western women who want to put western women down as a way to feel better about their shitty prospects.
The number of homosexual women is the same everywhere: between 0.7 and 1%
Lesbians exist everywhere and we are the same everywhere: we don’t want to sleep with men.
What’s different is the number of loud/out bisexuals who mislabel themselves as lesbians because of pornsickness/wish to titillate men/trauma, etc. That is different. And of course they aren’t loud in non western countries which tend to be more conservative and religious and where sexual promiscuity for women is frowned upon.
That’s not the real world. You are delusional if you think lesbians are 5% of women
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55
Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Da I rarely say this but this is one of the few instances I agree with a bisexual. This is honest for once.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.guest wrote: ↑14 Apr 2022, 22:48
It's funny you assume that I am a femcel considering that I have had males show interest in me. I just have high standards unlike fakebians.
Agree with everything you wrote. And I’m a lesbian (gold star but that goes without saying) who dislikes the fact that bisexuals are all over this forum. Agree with you on blackpill too.
Unsurprisingly some Nobel prize called you a man
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LMAO, you think you know so much, but you're just 21 years old. Your world view will change dramatically in the next 10 years. Young bisexuals like you usually end up marred with a man. The serious bisexuals who stay with women usually come out later after 25-30.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:54Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10
You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
DAGuest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:54Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10
You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).
Statistically most bisexual women end up with men, thats a fact. I mean you could say that one factor is that its still "cool" to id as bi or queer or whatever, so most women that call themselves bisexual are actually straight women looking for woke points or trying to be hot for their men or bisexuals who are only very very minorly attracted to women claiming the bi label the loudest and proudest give you that rap. Even though i have seen many so called febfems finding a man at the end.
I do think you hid a great point with bolded and that a lot of none goldstars could be pushy towards bis to try d--- or find a man, even more so then goldstars. I found, as a Goldstar, speaking to other goldstars, that we want women to ID as what they are, i.e. bisexuals should just call themselves bisexuals and nothing else. While a lot of none goldstar lesbians are probably the ones that tell bis in relationships to id as lesbians, cause they dont see it as a big deal, since they dont see sleeping with men hindering someone to be a lesbian and that it could have been just "a phase" for her and she is really a lesbian and bla bla.
They also are really triggered about bisexuals that havent slept with a man (maybe yet), because they have and therefore they know that that bisexual is "invalidating" their right to id as a lesbian, since if even a bisexual didnt/doesnt sleep with men, whats their excuse.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
x2 for once we have a sane bisexual on l chat, who would have thought?Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:00Da I rarely say this but this is one of the few instances I agree with a bisexual. This is honest for once.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55
Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
Agree with everything you wrote. And I’m a lesbian (gold star but that goes without saying) who dislikes the fact that bisexuals are all over this forum. Agree with you on blackpill too.
Unsurprisingly some Nobel prize called you a man
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Its very clear that none of you here are lesbians.
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Because we dont fuck men? yes, yes thats why we are NOT lesbiansguest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:21Its very clear that none of you here are lesbians.
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Of course I don't know everything but I learn a lot from the internet and interacting with people both online and offline. I may be young but I do spend a lot of time gaining more knowledge and different perspectives. The more I know the better I can understand myself, other people, and the world. My world view will change as I learn more but that is basically for everyone. I don't believe in marriage (you can still love and be with someone for the rest of your life without marrying them after all marriage was originally created to transfer the ownership of a girl from a father to a husband) so I won't be marrying anyone in the future. Do I know how many bisexuals will end up with a man? No. But non-goldstars aka fakebians should be included in the statistics of bisexuals since they are bisexuals. So the current statistics if they even have any are rigged. A serious bisexual can be any age. It depends on her personality not her age.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:02LMAO, you think you know so much, but you're just 21 years old. Your world view will change dramatically in the next 10 years. Young bisexuals like you usually end up marred with a man. The serious bisexuals who stay with women usually come out later after 25-30.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:54Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50
Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Most febfems are febfems because they got hurt or were screwed over by males and don't want to be with them for a while, are radical feminist who luckily do not turn into political "lesbians", and/or are manhaters. Eventually, some of them may find a male that they like enough that they end up with them. I just call myself bisexual because its not as straightforward as being straight or a real lesbians since straights will always end up with the opposite sex while real lesbians will always end up with the same sex. Even through most bisexual women end up with men, they don't all end up with men. Non-goldstars getting triggered by bisexuals who haven't slept with men (maybe yet) is a dead give away that they are not lesbians.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:08DAGuest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:54Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50
Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.
Statistically most bisexual women end up with men, thats a fact. I mean you could say that one factor is that its still "cool" to id as bi or queer or whatever, so most women that call themselves bisexual are actually straight women looking for woke points or trying to be hot for their men or bisexuals who are only very very minorly attracted to women claiming the bi label the loudest and proudest give you that rap. Even though i have seen many so called febfems finding a man at the end.
I do think you hid a great point with bolded and that a lot of none goldstars could be pushy towards bis to try d--- or find a man, even more so then goldstars. I found, as a Goldstar, speaking to other goldstars, that we want women to ID as what they are, i.e. bisexuals should just call themselves bisexuals and nothing else. While a lot of none goldstar lesbians are probably the ones that tell bis in relationships to id as lesbians, cause they dont see it as a big deal, since they dont see sleeping with men hindering someone to be a lesbian and that it could have been just "a phase" for her and she is really a lesbian and bla bla.
They also are really triggered about bisexuals that havent slept with a man (maybe yet), because they have and therefore they know that that bisexual is "invalidating" their right to id as a lesbian, since if even a bisexual didnt/doesnt sleep with men, whats their excuse.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Since you are bisexual, at what age you did have your first time with a woman and your first time with a man ?Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 21:06Most febfems are febfems because they got hurt or were screwed over by males and don't want to be with them for a while, are radical feminist who luckily do not turn into political "lesbians", and/or are manhaters. Eventually, some of them may find a male that they like enough that they end up with them. I just call myself bisexual because its not as straightforward as being straight or a real lesbians since straights will always end up with the opposite sex while real lesbians will always end up with the same sex. Even through most bisexual women end up with men, they don't all end up with men. Non-goldstars getting triggered by bisexuals who haven't slept with men (maybe yet) is a dead give away that they are not lesbians.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:08DAGuest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:54Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04
Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.
Statistically most bisexual women end up with men, thats a fact. I mean you could say that one factor is that its still "cool" to id as bi or queer or whatever, so most women that call themselves bisexual are actually straight women looking for woke points or trying to be hot for their men or bisexuals who are only very very minorly attracted to women claiming the bi label the loudest and proudest give you that rap. Even though i have seen many so called febfems finding a man at the end.
I do think you hid a great point with bolded and that a lot of none goldstars could be pushy towards bis to try d--- or find a man, even more so then goldstars. I found, as a Goldstar, speaking to other goldstars, that we want women to ID as what they are, i.e. bisexuals should just call themselves bisexuals and nothing else. While a lot of none goldstar lesbians are probably the ones that tell bis in relationships to id as lesbians, cause they dont see it as a big deal, since they dont see sleeping with men hindering someone to be a lesbian and that it could have been just "a phase" for her and she is really a lesbian and bla bla.
They also are really triggered about bisexuals that havent slept with a man (maybe yet), because they have and therefore they know that that bisexual is "invalidating" their right to id as a lesbian, since if even a bisexual didnt/doesnt sleep with men, whats their excuse.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
I have not done anything with a man or woman.guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 21:58Since you are bisexual, at what age you did have your first time with a woman and your first time with a man ?Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 21:06Most febfems are febfems because they got hurt or were screwed over by males and don't want to be with them for a while, are radical feminist who luckily do not turn into political "lesbians", and/or are manhaters. Eventually, some of them may find a male that they like enough that they end up with them. I just call myself bisexual because its not as straightforward as being straight or a real lesbians since straights will always end up with the opposite sex while real lesbians will always end up with the same sex. Even through most bisexual women end up with men, they don't all end up with men. Non-goldstars getting triggered by bisexuals who haven't slept with men (maybe yet) is a dead give away that they are not lesbians.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:08DAGuest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:54Why do most non-goldstars aka fakebians and their supporters think that bisexual women will always end up with a man? Hypocritically, in the same breath, if a bisexual woman ends up a woman especially if she marries a woman, they encourage her to call herself a lesbian. It seems like they want bisexual women to only mean those who prefer and want to be with men in the end and women are just placeholders until she finds her ideal man. I think the real reason why they want to limit the definition of bisexual women (will always end up with men) but expand the definition of lesbians (lesbians can have sex with men) is so they can be included in a community that they don't belong in.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 19:28
You are still very young, still plenty of time to meet your ideal man.
Statistically most bisexual women end up with men, thats a fact. I mean you could say that one factor is that its still "cool" to id as bi or queer or whatever, so most women that call themselves bisexual are actually straight women looking for woke points or trying to be hot for their men or bisexuals who are only very very minorly attracted to women claiming the bi label the loudest and proudest give you that rap. Even though i have seen many so called febfems finding a man at the end.
I do think you hid a great point with bolded and that a lot of none goldstars could be pushy towards bis to try d--- or find a man, even more so then goldstars. I found, as a Goldstar, speaking to other goldstars, that we want women to ID as what they are, i.e. bisexuals should just call themselves bisexuals and nothing else. While a lot of none goldstar lesbians are probably the ones that tell bis in relationships to id as lesbians, cause they dont see it as a big deal, since they dont see sleeping with men hindering someone to be a lesbian and that it could have been just "a phase" for her and she is really a lesbian and bla bla.
They also are really triggered about bisexuals that havent slept with a man (maybe yet), because they have and therefore they know that that bisexual is "invalidating" their right to id as a lesbian, since if even a bisexual didnt/doesnt sleep with men, whats their excuse.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Thanks to the bad reputation that non-gold stars give, my mom only told me that I'm a lesbian because I hate "men" and have a "trauma" why i dont have a dad haha I've never dated men or kissed one (btw I always had a lot of girlfriends and My mom always thought they were my "besties". Poor woman haha ), and yet people believe this kind of shit for these "lesbians" who fucked men and then they didn't like that. thanks for that . and make life more difficult for those of us who are real homosexual and perpetuate stupid stereotypes about what causes female homosexuality such as the so badly called "trauma".
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
x3. This.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 09:46x2Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).Guest wrote: ↑13 May 2022, 12:55Omg, you’re the freak who’s obsessed with calling out “fakebians” I’m not the least bit surprised you’re a bihet. Leave lesbians alone.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Damn girl, your mom never suspect you were sleeping with your "besties" or is your room sound proof enough?Guest wrote: ↑16 May 2022, 05:12Thanks to the bad reputation that non-gold stars give, my mom only told me that I'm a lesbian because I hate "men" and have a "trauma" why i dont have a dad haha I've never dated men or kissed one (btw I always had a lot of girlfriends and My mom always thought they were my "besties". Poor woman haha ), and yet people believe this kind of shit for these "lesbians" who fucked men and then they didn't like that. thanks for that . and make life more difficult for those of us who are real homosexual and perpetuate stupid stereotypes about what causes female homosexuality such as the so badly called "trauma".
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
You can thank the polilez for that shit. The trauma stuff is because plenty of straight/bi leaning women were/are traumatized by men and see lesbianism as their own personal rehab clinic from men. For a little while. Then once they are better and can’t go against their own nature any longer, they find a man. The exception, as they always call it.Guest wrote: ↑16 May 2022, 05:12Thanks to the bad reputation that non-gold stars give, my mom only told me that I'm a lesbian because I hate "men" and have a "trauma" why i dont have a dad haha I've never dated men or kissed one (btw I always had a lot of girlfriends and My mom always thought they were my "besties". Poor woman haha ), and yet people believe this kind of shit for these "lesbians" who fucked men and then they didn't like that. thanks for that . and make life more difficult for those of us who are real homosexual and perpetuate stupid stereotypes about what causes female homosexuality such as the so badly called "trauma".
The polilez hate men in a way that is very preoccupied and bitter. They are basically resentful /disappointed in men because their husband divorced them/cheated on them or they simply had mediocre het sex. They ‘hate’ men.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
x3. Yup, they exist but are rare.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:10x2 for once we have a sane bisexual on l chat, who would have thought?Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 20:00Da I rarely say this but this is one of the few instances I agree with a bisexual. This is honest for once.Guest wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 17:04Here we go again with the insults. If I were a man, I'd be advocating that lesbians can and should be fucking men. Haven't you heard these moronic males claiming that they have had sexual relations with lesbians or why they seem to attract lesbians into bed? The fact is they fucked bisexuals who later claim to be lesbians and these r------- males as well as many others believe them instead of calling them out on their bullshit. Ever wonder why some of these males think they have a chance with lesbians? It's because of non-goldstars. The answer to your question is simple: lesbians do not willingly have sex with males. They stay celibate or they go for women in secret if they don't want to come out but they never go for men. If a bisexual like me can abstain from having sex with males even through I am attracted to them, real lesbians sure as hell can. Many of the straight women that I know haven't had any sexual relations yet and they are in their twenties. There is so many excuses you can use to get people off your back if they are pestering you about having a man: waiting until marriage, focusing on studying, not ready yet, waiting for the right person, celibacy, etc. With any of those answers, people will accept those answers plus no one is in the room making sure you are fucking a man which means you can always lie about it. Non-goldstar are just self-hating bisexuals. They are bisexuals who were hurt and screwed over by men in some way and don't want to be with them anymore, got into radical feminism and became political lesbians, and/or prefer women but want to erase the other part of themselves. When I was younger, I used to think I was a lesbian because of the lesbian mastodoc (invented by a "lesbian" who later came out as a bisexual) and willed away my attraction to males with the bullshit concept of comphet. During the time I thought I was a lesbian, I hated men. I was a manhater. There is a cognitive dissonance when you are sexually attracted to what you hate. It can screw with your brain and that is why it is easy for bisexuals who hate men to think that they are lesbians by suppressing their attraction to men while encouraging their attraction to women. It wasn't until I read about blackpill feminism that I was able to reflect on myself and my nature that I realize that I was lying to myself and was in fact a bisexual. Blackpill feminism didn't wake me up from my delusion. It just encouraged me to think deeper about reality including myself.guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 20:50Da are you really a woman? You doesn't sound like that at all. And one question i have for you. Why do you think non-goldstars are bisexuals? I really don’t get it.Guest wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 06:10
You must not have read my original post since I literally said that I am bisexual who hasn't done anything with males. I am not claiming to be a lesbian. I bet you are a non-goldstar aka fakebian since you got so triggered that you starting calling me a freak. A freak? Based on what? Because I am speaking the truth? Changing the definitions of words and trying to rewrite history and reality. This sounds a lot like the methods crazy trannies and their supporters use. You and your fellow non-goldstar are delusional like those trannies wanting to be something that they can never be no matter how much insults and slander they throw at those who can see through their lies and delusions. Non-goldstars are just self-hating bisexuals who really need to accept themselves instead of pretending to be something that they are not. They should create their own community rather than invading and embarrassing the lesbian community. Not only does it make the lesbian community look bad, it also makes the bisexual community look bad since all the bisexual women who prefer women are being encouraged to call themselves lesbians (by these non-goldstars and their supporters) which leaves the bisexual community with those who prefer males (and all those crazy queers, trannies, and straights that want to seen as cool).
Agree with everything you wrote. And I’m a lesbian (gold star but that goes without saying) who dislikes the fact that bisexuals are all over this forum. Agree with you on blackpill too.
Unsurprisingly some Nobel prize called you a man
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
I had a "boyfriend" in 4th grade who I would hug and hold hands with (no kissing). Everyday he gave me chocolate. Once he ran out of his allowance money we broke up. I didn't really think about dating anyone until college because of the antidepressants. After getting off my meds I went girl-crazy and realized I was a lesbian.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
DA. Were you suffering from depression? It seems like when you stop with the medication, your libido and sexual desire immediately increase making it easy for you to realize your sexuality.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 23:07I had a "boyfriend" in 4th grade who I would hug and hold hands with (no kissing). Everyday he gave me chocolate. Once he ran out of his allowance money we broke up. I didn't really think about dating anyone until college because of the antidepressants. After getting off my meds I went girl-crazy and realized I was a lesbian.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
My boyfriend was a fake myspace profil, i made (with a pic of a random guy from google page 20 something lol), just so i could tell guys i was already taken and my straight friends shut up about me finding one/setting me up with someone.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
That was when i was 14-16 and the only "boyfriend" i ever had. Obviously there was no kissing happening.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
DA. Are you pretty attractive and in the popular girls group? That might be why they were trying to pressure/setting you up.Guest wrote: ↑21 May 2022, 08:02My boyfriend was a fake myspace profil, i made (with a pic of a random guy from google page 20 something lol), just so i could tell guys i was already taken and my straight friends shut up about me finding one/setting me up with someone.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
That was when i was 14-16 and the only "boyfriend" i ever had. Obviously there was no kissing happening.
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
I moved around a lot (every 2-4 yrs) as a kid because of my dad's job. I was upset about leaving my friends but apparently that's not allowed. I was a dramatic preteen and threatened to kill myself if I had to move. Because of that I was forced to see a psychiatrist at 10 years old and he prescribed me antidepressants. I took them for 11 years straight. I don't think I was ever actually depressed though, just sad. I had terrible withdrawal symptoms every time I tried to quit, so I gave up and continued taking them for a few years. Then in college I took 3 whole years to wean myself off of them. Afterwards it was like a veil had lifted. I finally experienced crushes and sexual desire, but never with men.Guest wrote: ↑21 May 2022, 07:34DA. Were you suffering from depression? It seems like when you stop with the medication, your libido and sexual desire immediately increase making it easy for you to realize your sexuality.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 23:07I had a "boyfriend" in 4th grade who I would hug and hold hands with (no kissing). Everyday he gave me chocolate. Once he ran out of his allowance money we broke up. I didn't really think about dating anyone until college because of the antidepressants. After getting off my meds I went girl-crazy and realized I was a lesbian.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
Dang does those antidepressants have any significant affects on your life in anyway, besides suppressing your libido/sexual desires? Hope it doesn't leave any lingering permanent impact.Guest wrote: ↑22 May 2022, 02:47I moved around a lot (every 2-4 yrs) as a kid because of my dad's job. I was upset about leaving my friends but apparently that's not allowed. I was a dramatic preteen and threatened to kill myself if I had to move. Because of that I was forced to see a psychiatrist at 10 years old and he prescribed me antidepressants. I took them for 11 years straight. I don't think I was ever actually depressed though, just sad. I had terrible withdrawal symptoms every time I tried to quit, so I gave up and continued taking them for a few years. Then in college I took 3 whole years to wean myself off of them. Afterwards it was like a veil had lifted. I finally experienced crushes and sexual desire, but never with men.Guest wrote: ↑21 May 2022, 07:34DA. Were you suffering from depression? It seems like when you stop with the medication, your libido and sexual desire immediately increase making it easy for you to realize your sexuality.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 23:07I had a "boyfriend" in 4th grade who I would hug and hold hands with (no kissing). Everyday he gave me chocolate. Once he ran out of his allowance money we broke up. I didn't really think about dating anyone until college because of the antidepressants. After getting off my meds I went girl-crazy and realized I was a lesbian.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread
I don't think they left a permanent impact, but I was on them for so long that I honestly don't know. The worst part about the antidepressant is I would get migraines every time I went a few days without them. They also numbed all of my emotions and made me very tired. If anything it's like they gave me a form of depression. Pretty ironic since they're supposed to stop depression, not cause it.Guest wrote: ↑22 May 2022, 22:25Dang does those antidepressants have any significant affects on your life in anyway, besides suppressing your libido/sexual desires? Hope it doesn't leave any lingering permanent impact.Guest wrote: ↑22 May 2022, 02:47I moved around a lot (every 2-4 yrs) as a kid because of my dad's job. I was upset about leaving my friends but apparently that's not allowed. I was a dramatic preteen and threatened to kill myself if I had to move. Because of that I was forced to see a psychiatrist at 10 years old and he prescribed me antidepressants. I took them for 11 years straight. I don't think I was ever actually depressed though, just sad. I had terrible withdrawal symptoms every time I tried to quit, so I gave up and continued taking them for a few years. Then in college I took 3 whole years to wean myself off of them. Afterwards it was like a veil had lifted. I finally experienced crushes and sexual desire, but never with men.Guest wrote: ↑21 May 2022, 07:34DA. Were you suffering from depression? It seems like when you stop with the medication, your libido and sexual desire immediately increase making it easy for you to realize your sexuality.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 23:07I had a "boyfriend" in 4th grade who I would hug and hold hands with (no kissing). Everyday he gave me chocolate. Once he ran out of his allowance money we broke up. I didn't really think about dating anyone until college because of the antidepressants. After getting off my meds I went girl-crazy and realized I was a lesbian.Guest wrote: ↑20 May 2022, 00:08To the golden stars here
who kissed or just had a fake boyfriend ....
What made you kiss and pretend to have a boyfriend (obviously no sexual contact)?
Was it pressure from family and friends?
Did you suffer some kind of internalized homophobia?
How long did it take you to accept that you were a lesbian and that it was not a bad thing?
And also, does your family accept that you are a lesbian now or not?
I'm sorry for asking all these questions but reading the meaning of what it means to be a gold star I found out that they are lesbians who have kissed and had boyfriends (but no sexual contact).. I ask this as a lesbian who has never kissed or had a fake boyfriend. I don't understand it because even just kissing and having to pretend to be girlfriend with a guy is something I can't even imagine that I could have done. I'm not saying anything against goldstars, it's just that I don't understand why you did that because I'm sure that was also a symptom of internalized homophobia (obviously different from non-gold stars).
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