Anonymous Confessions
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I'm pretty sure my boss, who is 20 years older than me, is a lesbian. She's butchy and is VERY supportive of LGBT (even though we live in a western and gay friendly country, she's from a very homophobic country so.. that's remarkable). That makes me somewhat attracted to her even though she's not conventionally attractive.....
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x2 also depending on your budget a mattress in a box can also be a cheap but good option.Guest wrote: ↑26 Nov 2021, 08:14What ever you do, don’t let her make you as bitter. Buy in inflatable mattress for now, wait for big sale dates. A futon mattress is also affordable. Get 8” one, for $65. Pick up some lumber and make a frame.Guest wrote: ↑25 Nov 2021, 22:00I'm moving out of my mom's flat as I'm starting a co-op work program (3 days of work/2 days of classes), two hours away from home, which pays enough to rent a one-room apartment. The last place I visited was not furnished and, in particular, didn't have a bed. I started looking up beds on the IKEA website. When my mom saw, she said I just had to suck it up and sleep on the floor. She wasn't joking. She sucks. After hitting me and humiliating me all through my childhood (which is probably what I'm really anrgy about), I should have known she would be mean and bitter until the end. What a bitch. I'm truly on my own.
I’ve been there, OP. I grew up poor and had to sleep on the floor most my life, but my mom always made sure she had a bed. When I was able to buy my own furniture. It felt so good. Congrats on your job and apartment!
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LOL My female bosses would confide in me about their marital issues, birth control, family sexual orientation, etc. I guess they felt "safe" around me and knew I'm not the type to gossip but just concentrate quietly on my work. Also, whenever those issues are brought up, I do try and take the time to patiently listen to their stories and just be "present" there with them without any judgment. But it was just strange how my female supervisors would just naturally talk about that in front of me inside the office. Like they wanted to know my advice or opinion on the matter. Oh well, I always saw it as an honor anyway because they trusted that personal information with me...Guest wrote: ↑26 Nov 2021, 17:40I'm not out at work, but I'm pretty sure some people suspect it or at least talk about it.Today I was talking to one of the newer people at work and the obv question came up asking if I'm married , have a boyfriend and so on.So I respond with the typical no not interested right now ,too busy....then the exact next thing she says is her friend recently came out the closet....they have to atleast suspect something right ?
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I'm not sure if she sees a future with me or just wants to use me for sex because she's lonely.
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No, I think most normal people want that.Guest wrote: ↑26 Nov 2021, 10:14I just want a girl who can fart and potty in front of me and chills in her sweats not a slob but someone who is chill and doesnt obsess over her looks all the time and we can be ourselves around each other. Am I asking for too much?
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So I spent today cooking a thanksgiving meal for my mother who has Parkinson’s disease. I unlike my older brother and sister appreciate each Holiday and birthday I get to spend with her. My sister spent all day on thanksgiving feeling sorry for herself and my brother is just a loser. It’s hard to believe we had the same parents.
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I'm the baby in my family, single and a lesbian (closeted). Every year for the holidays I would save a paycheck on the side to buy gifts for my siblings and their kids. Next month, I'm going just to say fuck it, and give nothing just a hug and a happy holiday wish. I am tired of giving, and not feeling their love and appreciation.
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You need to take care of yourself too and this is your way of saying you need that
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Waiting for the person I'm dating to break up with her girlfriend.
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Stand me up, give me mixed signals, and now you have a fucking boyfriend. You did all that shit for attention. I cant believe this shit.
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I will never have a dating life because of this.Guest wrote: ↑26 Nov 2021, 16:31My dating life is just gonna be bisexual women using me for fun and attention over and over again
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I wonder if she would call me if she still had my number.
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I hope you get played & embarrassed just like you embarrassed me.
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I hate that I get stress hives at least once a year and it's always at the same time of the year, like clockwork.
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That sounds terrible, what happened Anon?Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 01:23I hope you get played & embarrassed just like you embarrassed me.
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Is it possible to stop loving someone you love ao much?
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When someone says they are attracted to women and have no interest in men then that is it. End of discussion.
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I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
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Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its goneGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 03:53I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
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So glad you're moving on, Anon, and not investing any more time on this mind-games-playing bitch. And make sure you wash your hands real well; this girl player definitely has too much of something up her tight ass.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:00Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its goneGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 03:53I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
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I confess that (I think) one of the reasons why I get banned so often on here is because many of my posts come across as blunt, sarcastic, and condescending. (My lazy lack of using laughing or "just kidding" emojis doesn't help, either.) But I'm only aggressive in that way towards one particular group on here, and although some nasty posts do end up in the mix, the majority of what I post in addressing this group is meant to be "educative and informing." Other than that, I am actually a gentle-natured anon on here who tries to respond with sensitive, thoughtful, and helpful answers to other anon questions asking for advice or encouragement. If you ever meet me in real life beyond this L-Chat bubble, you'd be surprised to discover that I am almost the exact opposite of some of my more assertive "personas" on here. I am actually quite shy and self-conscious at first; it takes me hours to warm up. SORRY FOR THIS OVERLY-LONG AND PROBABLY TOO SELF-CENTERED CONFESSION...!!!
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Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:39So glad you're moving on, Anon, and not investing any more time on this mind-games-playing bitch. And make sure you wash your hands real well; this girl player definitely has too much of something up her tight ass.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:00Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its goneGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 03:53I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
Im trying & so far since I stopped talking to her ive been sleeping better. Mixed signals were driving me insane anon. I assume since her lil pic of her boy & her is gone, she must of got played.
Truthfully girl, i dont think this over. As much as I am trying to stay away, i think she will be back. I have to stay strong. I really was digging her too. Thank god I didn't catch feelings
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Jesus. You've been posting about this for months now.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 06:08Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:39So glad you're moving on, Anon, and not investing any more time on this mind-games-playing bitch. And make sure you wash your hands real well; this girl player definitely has too much of something up her tight ass.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:00Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its goneGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 03:53I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
Im trying & so far since I stopped talking to her ive been sleeping better. Mixed signals were driving me insane anon. I assume since her lil pic of her boy & her is gone, she must of got played.
Truthfully girl, i dont think this over. As much as I am trying to stay away, i think she will be back. I have to stay strong. I really was digging her too. Thank god I didn't catch feelings
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x2 The mental illness is strong with this one.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 10:07Jesus. You've been posting about this for months now.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 06:08Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:39So glad you're moving on, Anon, and not investing any more time on this mind-games-playing bitch. And make sure you wash your hands real well; this girl player definitely has too much of something up her tight ass.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:00Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its goneGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 03:53
I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
Im trying & so far since I stopped talking to her ive been sleeping better. Mixed signals were driving me insane anon. I assume since her lil pic of her boy & her is gone, she must of got played.
Truthfully girl, i dont think this over. As much as I am trying to stay away, i think she will be back. I have to stay strong. I really was digging her too. Thank god I didn't catch feelings
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Why are you wasting time on bis anyway?Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:00Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its goneGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 03:53I am stood up anon.
Look this girl kept giving me over excessive attention when she saw me. She was paying way too much attention to me. She was trying to get my attention, staring at me at work. She also knows I like women. She knew from the start. She swings both ways. I finally ask her to hang & she stands me up. Then she tells someone to stop cockblocking us at work (as a joke). But why even say that? She knows I like her, its obvious. She rubs my hands with her weird ass crystals. I finally tell myself to move on because she plays too many games.
I am not foolish to assume she was interested. Why the fuck would try to get the attention of a gay girl. Now she has a fucking boyfriend .
She was giving me mixed signals. I am so fucking dumb & embarrassed
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Fuck off with this bullshit. This situation happened a month ago so I haven't been posting about it for months. You dont just get over someone really liked in a month.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 12:40x2 The mental illness is strong with this one.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 10:07Jesus. You've been posting about this for months now.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 06:08Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:39So glad you're moving on, Anon, and not investing any more time on this mind-games-playing bitch. And make sure you wash your hands real well; this girl player definitely has too much of something up her tight ass.Stood up anon wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 04:00
Ok so today I looked on her IG & she had a pic of her & this guy. Then she had his name next to it with a heart. Now its gone
Im trying & so far since I stopped talking to her ive been sleeping better. Mixed signals were driving me insane anon. I assume since her lil pic of her boy & her is gone, she must of got played.
Truthfully girl, i dont think this over. As much as I am trying to stay away, i think she will be back. I have to stay strong. I really was digging her too. Thank god I didn't catch feelings
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I’m a chubby/fat, sporty, femme lesbian. I’m single too. Trying to work myself and i am self aware. I have always been into older woman and I have not dated for years. Was busy with work and travelling. So this month I matched this woman on the app. Her profile photo was a photo of her boobs. Not explicit of cos, like a tease of it. I swiped her for fun and it turned out we could click and we have exchanged photos. Prior to that before we moved the convo to another level, I told her I don’t look like a model and I am not slim just to manage her expectations.
She said she doesn’t care and that’s not what she’s looking for. So when she showed her photo, she looks great. I just think that women esp hot ones always say this that they don’t care about looks but I just feel like they will care when the day comes for us to meet. They always say charisma is more important than looks but they would be the one who would ghost those unattractive and the uglies. I’m not ugly. Yes I’ve showed my photo and also told her and would also most likely meet for a date before anything but I am now thinking if I’m just wasting my time.
If you were me, would u
A) delete the app and only join the app when you lose the weight and build up your self confidence- so this will take months or years
B) just go with the flow and set no expectations and wow her with your personality(I was told I have a nice personality.)
C) ask her out for drinks to let her reject u before u start to have ridiculous wishful thinking on this
Can’t believe this is happening!!! Why am I fat when hot girls are single!
She said she doesn’t care and that’s not what she’s looking for. So when she showed her photo, she looks great. I just think that women esp hot ones always say this that they don’t care about looks but I just feel like they will care when the day comes for us to meet. They always say charisma is more important than looks but they would be the one who would ghost those unattractive and the uglies. I’m not ugly. Yes I’ve showed my photo and also told her and would also most likely meet for a date before anything but I am now thinking if I’m just wasting my time.
If you were me, would u
A) delete the app and only join the app when you lose the weight and build up your self confidence- so this will take months or years
B) just go with the flow and set no expectations and wow her with your personality(I was told I have a nice personality.)
C) ask her out for drinks to let her reject u before u start to have ridiculous wishful thinking on this
Can’t believe this is happening!!! Why am I fat when hot girls are single!
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Confessions?
Okay ... I'm crushed on the pet food store clerk. Luckily I have three cats and a dog and I can go there often! But my pets are gaining weight ...! (joke)
The thing that struck me the most is that I remember the day I saw her for the first time (one year ago)
I hadn't noticed her before. She was new. I was about to pay, I gave her my credit card and we made eye contact for a moment; I was about to twist it (I'm shy), but then something attracted me. Then I looked at her again and she too was looking at me with a strange, intense look perhaps curiosity. Maybe because we both have nose piercings. I do not know. At that moment I felt like someone was slapping me and in my mind I said "uao ..."
She is beautiful .. she also seems nice and kind, she has a sweet and calm way of speaking. But she's straight and I just hurt myself always hoping to find her in the store.
Damn me.
Okay ... I'm crushed on the pet food store clerk. Luckily I have three cats and a dog and I can go there often! But my pets are gaining weight ...! (joke)
The thing that struck me the most is that I remember the day I saw her for the first time (one year ago)
I hadn't noticed her before. She was new. I was about to pay, I gave her my credit card and we made eye contact for a moment; I was about to twist it (I'm shy), but then something attracted me. Then I looked at her again and she too was looking at me with a strange, intense look perhaps curiosity. Maybe because we both have nose piercings. I do not know. At that moment I felt like someone was slapping me and in my mind I said "uao ..."
She is beautiful .. she also seems nice and kind, she has a sweet and calm way of speaking. But she's straight and I just hurt myself always hoping to find her in the store.
Damn me.
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What is the problem? You are you. What does it matter that you may be a little overweight? I have often been attracted to aesthetically beautiful people and then find them empty. Other times I have seen beauty in people who are less canonically beautiful, but who had a beautiful way of doing things, or of speaking or of a beautiful mind.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:08Can’t believe this is happening!!! Why am I fat when hot girls are single!
Go out and meet this woman !!
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I wish I could get 1000 subscribers on Youtube to start making some money so I could leave my parents house but I'm unseless anyway.
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It takes way more than 1000 subs to get actual money, you are only gonna penny for thatGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:51I wish I could get 1000 subscribers on Youtube to start making some money so I could leave my parents house but I'm unseless anyway.
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Hoe do you know se straight?DVD wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:12Confessions?
Okay ... I'm crushed on the pet food store clerk. Luckily I have three cats and a dog and I can go there often! But my pets are gaining weight ...! (joke)
The thing that struck me the most is that I remember the day I saw her for the first time (one year ago)
I hadn't noticed her before. She was new. I was about to pay, I gave her my credit card and we made eye contact for a moment; I was about to twist it (I'm shy), but then something attracted me. Then I looked at her again and she too was looking at me with a strange, intense look perhaps curiosity. Maybe because we both have nose piercings. I do not know. At that moment I felt like someone was slapping me and in my mind I said "uao ..."
She is beautiful .. she also seems nice and kind, she has a sweet and calm way of speaking. But she's straight and I just hurt myself always hoping to find her in the store.
Damn me.
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Really? Someone told me that with 1k subs and some videos I could do 1k per month. They also said I should go to onlyfans but I would never.
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I want a relationship like blue and blonde have. I can't handle how they are together and the things they do. How can two people lift each other up like that and just succeed so much. It's so beautiful to watch as a spectator to its secrecy and it's so pure and so inspirational. Perfect secrets oath bond couple and I'm so here for the heartwarming beauty of it on the downlow.
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Speaking of cats one day she said "my ex and I had a cat that etc etc.."Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 19:58How do you know se straight?
We also have mutual friends on Facebook so I have seen her page and photos with the ex-boyfriend.
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Being in love with someone who doesn't know you exist is so embarrassing yet here I am.
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I know you exist. I love you beautiful woman. How do you want to meet? After this many years I know it's rightGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 22:29Being in love with someone who doesn't know you exist is so embarrassing yet here I am.
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Thank you kind anon.Guest wrote: ↑27 Nov 2021, 18:52You need to take care of yourself too and this is your way of saying you need that
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Can you elaborate about this "empty personality" on some attractive people?DVD wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:16What is the problem? You are you. What does it matter that you may be a little overweight? I have often been attracted to aesthetically beautiful people and then find them empty. Other times I have seen beauty in people who are less canonically beautiful, but who had a beautiful way of doing things, or of speaking or of a beautiful mind.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:08Can’t believe this is happening!!! Why am I fat when hot girls are single!
Go out and meet this woman !!
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I think I need to stay away from people. No friends, no relationships. I'm not good for people and vice versa.
I had a rough upbringing and despite lots and lots of therapy, the past shapes every relationship I have. My expectations are too high, I don't trust anyone. Instead of getting irritable and frustrated when I don't get what I want from a relationship, I'd rather be lonely. It's better than feeling the way I do now, and it's better than screwing up other people's lives.
I had a rough upbringing and despite lots and lots of therapy, the past shapes every relationship I have. My expectations are too high, I don't trust anyone. Instead of getting irritable and frustrated when I don't get what I want from a relationship, I'd rather be lonely. It's better than feeling the way I do now, and it's better than screwing up other people's lives.
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I'm in love with some women who all rejected meGuest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 22:29Being in love with someone who doesn't know you exist is so embarrassing yet here I am.
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It’s Monday. My schedule is full with meetings. I hate Monday meeting. I want one more day to sleep. That’s all I want.
5 days for work. Weekends for family. I just want 1 day for myself.
5 days for work. Weekends for family. I just want 1 day for myself.
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Unless you're a footballer in Germany I don't want you.
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What if she rejects me when we meet? Wouldn’t that send me to a downward spiral?DVD wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:16What is the problem? You are you. What does it matter that you may be a little overweight? I have often been attracted to aesthetically beautiful people and then find them empty. Other times I have seen beauty in people who are less canonically beautiful, but who had a beautiful way of doing things, or of speaking or of a beautiful mind.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:08Can’t believe this is happening!!! Why am I fat when hot girls are single!
Go out and meet this woman !!
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if you give up without trying, you are already in a downward spiral.Guest wrote: ↑29 Nov 2021, 05:17What if she rejects me when we meet? Wouldn’t that send me to a downward spiral?DVD wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:16What is the problem? You are you. What does it matter that you may be a little overweight? I have often been attracted to aesthetically beautiful people and then find them empty. Other times I have seen beauty in people who are less canonically beautiful, but who had a beautiful way of doing things, or of speaking or of a beautiful mind.Guest wrote: ↑28 Nov 2021, 18:08Can’t believe this is happening!!! Why am I fat when hot girls are single!
Go out and meet this woman !!
Don't choose yourself for others, let others decide if they like you
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