I'm a nonsensically stubborn perfectionist so: A ridiculously beautiful, lithe, model/model-looking, tall-ish woman. Ideally smart. Can-do attitude, go-getter, has energy, can keep up her half of a conversation and actually isn't afraid of instigating convo about her interests, ideas, plans. Basically a smartie hottie with energy
I know I sound like a t#@t that wants some perfect ideal of a woman, but you asked
Medium to tall-ish, pretty face, brown hair, toned body, nicely shaped ass. Femme on the tomboyish side. Sorta intellectual. Good (compatible) sense of humor. Kind personality with a good heart. Respectful to people, not just to me. Cares about the environment. Doesn't smoke. Likes to chill at home. Someone who doesn't bore me even when we do nothing. Sexually compatible. Someone who is realistic but not pessimistic about everything. Is patient with me.
- Attractive
- even-tempered
- loves to read
- loves to watch movies and TV
- understanding
- compassionate
- has strong principles
- intelligent
- Pro-active
- not shallow
- loves to learn
- not classist
- not petty
- Is a good travel companion
- brave
- realistic and with ideals
- witty
- has a good sense of humor
- has a unique way of looking at things
- practices mental hygiene (careful with her thoughts when she's alone and careful with her words when she's with other people).
In case I do meet someone, she doesn't have to meet all of this because there are things that I can compromise, but having strong principles, being compassionate, being understanding, and not being shallow are quite non-negotiable.
I like brunettes, green/hazel/brown eyes, light skin, cute smile, freckles (just a little), raspy voice
smart, feminist, tolerant, good sense of humor, loves to watch movies and TV, loves animals, likes travelling, likes to chill at home, cares about the environment, who has ideas & interests and loves debating/talking about them
not athletic, not religious, not vulgar, not shallow
Guest wrote:- Attractive
- even-tempered
- loves to read
- loves to watch movies and TV
- understanding
- compassionate
- has strong principles
- intelligent
- Pro-active
- not shallow
- loves to learn
- not classist
- not petty
- Is a good travel companion
- brave
- realistic and with ideals
- witty
- has a good sense of humor
- has a unique way of looking at things
- practices mental hygiene (careful with her thoughts when she's alone and careful with her words when she's with other people).
In case I do meet someone, she doesn't have to meet all of this because there are things that I can compromise, but having strong principles, being compassionate, being understanding, and not being shallow are quite non-negotiable.
These are all wonderful qualities, an admirable answer. Two thumbs up.
Right now I am happily single and not looking for a relationship. That being said, I do expect to change my mind about siglehood as soon as I finish grad school for a master's.
On a strictly superficial level, I always seem to be attracted to fit and healthy redheads with green or blue eyes, followed by natural blondes.
On a deeper level, I would fall hard for a woman with the characteristics below:
Intelligent</li>
Well-educated</li>
Kind</li>
Principled</li>
Wants to do good in the world</li>
Has a good sense of humor</li>
Open minded and curious</li>
Enjoys conversation, sharing new ideas, and learning new things</li>
Values objectivity</li>
Rejects dogma, blind faith and hive mind</li>
Is "spiritually aware"</li>
Understands what I am talking about when I mention seeing a bright white inner light when I close my eyes</li>
Is into meditation and dream work</li>
Appreciates Emerson, Maslow and Jung</li>
May have tried pot or psychedelics but is not currently on drugs</li>
Pursues optimum health and fitness</li>
Positive sexual attitude: enjoys sex, but is not into power games, filth or kink</li>
Understands money and manages it well.</li>
Values her appearance and presents well</li>
Good sense of style, knows what clothes and colors she looks best wearing</li>
Avoids the deadly combination of intolerance, criticism, contempt and stonewalling in relationships</li>
Values home as a peaceful sanctuary from the madness of the world</li>
Guest wrote:- Attractive
- even-tempered
- loves to read
- loves to watch movies and TV
- understanding
- compassionate
- has strong principles
- intelligent
- Pro-active
- not shallow
- loves to learn
- not classist
- not petty
- Is a good travel companion
- brave
- realistic and with ideals
- witty
- has a good sense of humor
- has a unique way of looking at things
- practices mental hygiene (careful with her thoughts when she's alone and careful with her words when she's with other people).
In case I do meet someone, she doesn't have to meet all of this because there are things that I can compromise, but having strong principles, being compassionate, being understanding, and not being shallow are quite non-negotiable.
These are all wonderful qualities, an admirable answer. Two thumbs up.
DA Sure, all very fine qualities. But try finding a woman that has all these qualities AND is girlfriend material. Tbh this sounds like the perfect friend. I've compromised a lot with girlfriends, because having a long wish list would mean being alone! That perfect girlfriend just doesn't exits. I want a woman I can talk to, who listens (as do I), we make each other laugh and have good times. And some sex along the way! I have to WANT her. That's it!
Guest wrote:Right now I am happily single and not looking for a relationship. That being said, I do expect to change my mind about siglehood as soon as I finish grad school for a master's.
On a strictly superficial level, I always seem to be attracted to fit and healthy redheads with green or blue eyes, followed by natural blondes.
On a deeper level, I would fall hard for a woman with the characteristics below:
</li>
Intelligent
</li>
Well-educated
</li>
Kind
</li>
Principled
</li>
Wants to do good in the world
</li>
Has a good sense of humor
</li>
Open minded and curious
</li>
Enjoys conversation, sharing new ideas, and learning new things
</li>
Values objectivity
</li>
Rejects dogma, blind faith and hive mind
</li>
Is "spiritually aware"
</li>
Understands what I am talking about when I mention seeing a bright white inner light when I close my eyes
</li>
Is into meditation and dream work
</li>
Appreciates Emerson, Maslow and Jung
</li>
May have tried pot or psychedelics but is not currently on drugs
</li>
Pursues optimum health and fitness
</li>
Positive sexual attitude: enjoys sex, but is not into power games, filth or kink
</li>
Understands money and manages it well.
</li>
Values her appearance and presents well
</li>
Good sense of style, knows what clothes and colors she looks best wearing
</li>
Avoids the deadly combination of intolerance, criticism, contempt and stonewalling in relationships
</li>
Values home as a peaceful sanctuary from the madness of the world
</li>
Avoids drama, trauma and bullshit
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I want to copy and paste this post! hahahaha! Minus the drugs bit
Nothing trite cuz I don't want what everyone wants. So a good mixture of these:
Good morals, indipendent, open minded, not intense, aloof, knows how to look good and take care of health, kind to living things, knows why things are the way they are, a sunshine
None of these:
Arrogance, deception, pride, vindictiveness
I always thought my type's a tall, skinny, blonde, artsy girl. Ended up with a tiny, fit brunette who's after terrorists so any ideas about my type went out of the window when we got to know each other better and it turned out we share the same core values.
Guest wrote:Don't have a type but I know what I like when I see it.
This!
I don't think I have a type either.
Actually I don't go gazing at girls on the streets, but when one catches my eye is hard for me to let go. Think I'm a bad case of love at first sight. Not sure if it's a bad thing or a good thing. Think it's a bad thing.
Quirky ....kind and intelligent...sense of humour and not afraid to laugh at herself....tall blonde....grey haired mixed with a bit of pink...with a certain style....big blue eyes.....That make you week at the knees when you look at her in the eyes...
Quirky ....kind and intelligent...sense of humour and not afraid to laugh at herself....tall blonde....grey haired mixed with a bit of pink...with a certain style....big blue eyes.....That make you week at the knees when you look at her in the eyes...