If it's a man tell him you're a lesbian if it's a woman tell her you are dating someone. Overall you have to tell them something or else they will keep following you.
Guest wrote:If it's a man tell him you're a lesbian if it's a woman tell her you are dating someone. Overall you have to tell them something or else they will keep following you.
It's a woman, and it's not about dating.
She asked me to participate in something, I didn't want to sound rude and instead of declining asked her to tell me more about it, and she (on purpose or not) interpreted it as an agreement, and sucked me into it. I am always being too nice and don't know how to say no to people.
Guest wrote:How do I get rid of someone leeching on me online without making myself look like an asshole?
Let me know what you think.
Hi (name of person),
Thank you for considering me and asking me to participate in (blank). I was curious about details and thought about it, but found that I'm not the right person for it. I don't want to take that opportunity away from someone who may actually want it. You're awesome for thinking of me though!
*optional* let me know of other things
Conclude
If they are persistent. Just be honest and tell them "thanks, but no thanks."
Guest wrote:How do I get rid of someone leeching on me online without making myself look like an asshole?
Let me know what you think.
Hi (name of person),
Thank you for considering me and asking me to participate in (blank). I was curious about details and thought about it, but found that I'm not the right person for it. I don't want to take that opportunity away from someone who may actually want it. You're awesome for thinking of me though!
*optional* let me know of other things
Conclude
If they are persistent. Just be honest and tell them "thanks, but no thanks."
Op here. This is actually a nice and polite response. I will try writing something similar to this person. Thanks!
Was romantic with someone. Their family member added me. This person disappeared, so I removed her from my SM. Not sure if I should keep her family member.
Could someone please recommend something on Netflix with nice lesbian content (preferably without one of the women ending up with a man in the end). I've already seen The Intervention, Carol, Loving Annabelle, Hill House, OITNB and Gypsy (which desperately needs more seasons, those bastards!).
Guest wrote:do you think that extremely mentally ill people are kind of drawn to each other because they speak the same language as in the language of crazy
I think you attract what you are not what you wznt
Are people who go out of their way to prove they are straight more likely to be gay or bi? I got a real vibe off a married supposedly straight woman recently. We exchanged eye contact and it was like electric. A few weeks later I had a brief conversation with her about work matters (we work in same company and have very limited contact). Completely randomly and out of context she mentioned she had a son. It was really weird and made me think she was trying to show me she was ultra straight... But it had the opposite effect
So honest answers here please. I've never understood why people cut themselves. I've been depressed, suicidal even, but cutting myself has never crossed my mind. I've tried to imagine what brings people to do that, but I can't figure it out. It seems like a social contagion, and it's mostly teens, I honestly wonder if the real reason they do it is because they think it's cool and it brings attention. So is that the real reason, the un-PC reason no one actually wants to say? Or am I totally wrong and being judgemental?