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Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » Yesterday, 05:53

Guest wrote:
Yesterday, 03:06
Guest wrote:
27 Mar 2024, 18:07
Goldstar lesbian flag

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Fuck no. Gold stars should not use anything with that ugly ass orange flag. The creator (Emily Gwen) is literally a bihet and she even gave thanks to trannies for "helping with the flag"


Just use the Natalie McCray one ffs
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I disagree, we can use and reclaim anything that has a name lesbian on it.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » Yesterday, 03:06

Guest wrote:
27 Mar 2024, 18:07
Goldstar lesbian flag

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Fuck no. Gold stars should not use anything with that ugly ass orange flag. The creator (Emily Gwen) is literally a bihet and she even gave thanks to trannies for "helping with the flag"


Just use the Natalie McCray one ffs
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Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 Mar 2024, 18:07

Goldstar lesbian flag

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Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 Mar 2024, 14:41

Guest wrote:
27 Mar 2024, 14:39
Guest wrote:
20 Jan 2024, 21:44
I'm looking to make a statement with a bracelet or symbol of some sort to support Lesbian pride. Does anyone know if there's a symbol specific to Lesbians (gold star)?

How do you feel about the lesbian flag? The first color is gender non-conformity. I'm confused by that
Yeah that orange monstrosity is usually not used by actual (gold star) lesbians. I'm using an emoji combo that goes ⭐️🩷🤍❤️⭐️ which represents gold stars and the colors of the original lesbian flag, designed by Natalie McCray who is also gold star. She got "canceled" for not finding an east Asian woman who she went on a date with attractive (even though Natalie is south east Asian💀). I get not liking pink but Natalie's flag is the only genuine symbol that shows "I'm lesbian and don't believe in queer ideology".
The labrys flag with the axe is used by polilez radfem grifters, so I stopped using that two years ago lmao
Addition: alternatively you can you ⭐️💗🤍❤️⭐️ or any pink heart emoji if your phone/computer doesn't have the actual emoji (🩷) yet

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 Mar 2024, 14:39

Guest wrote:
20 Jan 2024, 21:44
I'm looking to make a statement with a bracelet or symbol of some sort to support Lesbian pride. Does anyone know if there's a symbol specific to Lesbians (gold star)?

How do you feel about the lesbian flag? The first color is gender non-conformity. I'm confused by that
Yeah that orange monstrosity is usually not used by actual (gold star) lesbians. I'm using an emoji combo that goes ⭐️🩷🤍❤️⭐️ which represents gold stars and the colors of the original lesbian flag, designed by Natalie McCray who is also gold star. She got "canceled" for not finding an east Asian woman who she went on a date with attractive (even though Natalie is south east Asian💀). I get not liking pink but Natalie's flag is the only genuine symbol that shows "I'm lesbian and don't believe in queer ideology".
The labrys flag with the axe is used by polilez radfem grifters, so I stopped using that two years ago lmao

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 Mar 2024, 14:34

Guest wrote:
02 Oct 2023, 16:20
Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 01:47
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 19:34
DazzlingNova wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:44
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.
There are other gold stars on tumblr, they do exist! But the reason i was so disappointed by this person’s response to me just using logic is because she’s of the radfem bubble in tumblr and we have lots of opinions in common except she thinks a woman who has married a man, had like 3 kids with him, fucked on the daily then got tired and started calling herself a “late bloomer lesbian” is valid
When basic common sense says she’s just not


one of the actual gold stars i follow and talks a lot about how gold stars get mistreated for simply existing and stating basic facts. Her @ is tenko-irl
She’s amazing!
Radblr sucks a**. It's just a bunch of polilez and fauxbians coping themselves into believing they aren't attracted to males.

I love tenko's page too! She's not a radfem. I also know she has a serve r. :goldstar:
Idk what groups yall are in but the tenko tumblr page is the only one I've seen that makes it a point that they're group isn't for trannies/queers/radfems .
Why do radfems claim to be us then get mad when we're attracted to women being hot anyway🗿

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 20 Mar 2024, 20:26

I want to warn others that there are some women that will meet the definition of goldstar and rarely platinum star that are fakebians. Some of them claim to have male crushes on celebrities, mastrubate to porn with men in it, say all of the classic bisexual/fakebian stuff and because they only fucked and kissed women, they'll claim the goldstar and platinum star lesbian. My ex is a fakebian and falsely claims to be a goldstar lesbian. She has a lot of issues of her own that I don't want to get into, but I'm afraid if I date again I'll come across another fakebian falsely claiming gold star. I'm not a lesbian (febfem but don't call myself one) but I am very pro goldstar and platinum star and I do think lesbians need to gatekeep the word lesbian.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 17 Mar 2024, 19:28

Bump. Dont let this thread disappear

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by coquettefemme » 27 Jan 2024, 19:11

i’m a proud, fairly young (i’m 22 lol) platinum star lesbian! i’m so damn glad i came across this thread <3

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 20 Jan 2024, 21:44

I'm looking to make a statement with a bracelet or symbol of some sort to support Lesbian pride. Does anyone know if there's a symbol specific to Lesbians (gold star)?

How do you feel about the lesbian flag? The first color is gender non-conformity. I'm confused by that

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Ryu Niiyama » 22 Dec 2023, 07:26

Guest wrote:
02 Oct 2023, 16:26
guest wrote:
30 Sep 2023, 06:27
Are there any dating apps or places where you can meet other goldstars? i know there used to be an app ,but i forgot the name..it was here on l chat about it
I think it was called club monocle but it's not lesbian exclusive anymore. Bisexual women on there and the owner of the app won't kick them.
Bianca won’t kick a “late bloomer” it is true but users can’t talk about men sexually there or say they are bi as that will get the ban hammer swung. I will admit it’s a little hostile to gold stars (like no one can shame goldstars as they will get banned but I get told a lot that “not every lesbian has the same journey” or some nonsense when I don’t agree with “late bloomer bs.) A lot of the late bloomers left when a bunch of the gold stars said that they felt they weren’t lesbians. (But we lost some gold stars too) but the convos are mostly women focused or women’s rights focused. But it isn’t like Lchat where there are lots of fights with bis infiltrating. That being said it isn’t as active as I had hoped it would be.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 02 Oct 2023, 16:26

guest wrote:
30 Sep 2023, 06:27
Are there any dating apps or places where you can meet other goldstars? i know there used to be an app ,but i forgot the name..it was here on l chat about it
I think it was called club monocle but it's not lesbian exclusive anymore. Bisexual women on there and the owner of the app won't kick them.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 02 Oct 2023, 16:20

Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 01:47
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 19:34
DazzlingNova wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:44
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.
There are other gold stars on tumblr, they do exist! But the reason i was so disappointed by this person’s response to me just using logic is because she’s of the radfem bubble in tumblr and we have lots of opinions in common except she thinks a woman who has married a man, had like 3 kids with him, fucked on the daily then got tired and started calling herself a “late bloomer lesbian” is valid
When basic common sense says she’s just not


one of the actual gold stars i follow and talks a lot about how gold stars get mistreated for simply existing and stating basic facts. Her @ is tenko-irl
She’s amazing!
Radblr sucks a**. It's just a bunch of polilez and fauxbians coping themselves into believing they aren't attracted to males.

I love tenko's page too! She's not a radfem. I also know she has a serve r. :goldstar:

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by guest » 30 Sep 2023, 06:27

Are there any dating apps or places where you can meet other goldstars? i know there used to be an app ,but i forgot the name..it was here on l chat about it

Re: Re:

by Guest » 14 Sep 2023, 00:56

Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 17:26
Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 16:43
Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 06:29
Virgins are not goldstars, by the way. That disqualifies most of the Lchatters.

Show your work? Am not reading 70+ replies of blather to find out how someone has twisted logic to make this seem a rule in every case.

Among female virgins, there must statistically be some goldstars, and one imagines that the percentage of them increases in higher age groups (i.e., not many lesbian virgins in the 18-21 category, a slight increase in the 22-25 but still relatively few, a more noticeable number in the 26-30, probably 50% or greater in the 30+).
IDK why virgins would call themselves gold star, especially when on top of being a virgin they haven’t even dated or kissed other women. Being proud of being gold star when you’ve never been with a woman is funny to me 😂 like bihets are getting more pussy than u, that’s tragic. Also, a lot of these ‘virgin gold stars’ online are 30, 40 + years old. If you have made it this far in life and not even successfully kissed or had sex with a single woman why tf do you get a gold star? You’re a femcel at this point 😂😂

For me, I’m gold star because I’ve only been with women. I don’t like to center MEN in my sexuality. Virgins seem to define gold star as lack of experience with men, which centers men. Meanwhile those of us who are actually sexually active would be more likely to define gold star as only having experience with women.
You sound male. Celibate or sexually inexperienced women are generally in that position because they haven’t met someone suitable and they’re more selective than, say, the people who have had sex with you.

They deserve a gold star rating for having standards and not having sex with, say, someone like you, whereas your less fussy partners might receive one of those faces with the upside down smile.

The femcel tag is misplaced. It’s difficult to imagine that they are like male incels - involuntarily celibate & angry & hateful towards women.

Re: Re:

by Guest » 13 Sep 2023, 21:52

Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 21:28
Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 17:26
Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 16:43
Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 06:29
Virgins are not goldstars, by the way. That disqualifies most of the Lchatters.

Show your work? Am not reading 70+ replies of blather to find out how someone has twisted logic to make this seem a rule in every case.

Among female virgins, there must statistically be some goldstars, and one imagines that the percentage of them increases in higher age groups (i.e., not many lesbian virgins in the 18-21 category, a slight increase in the 22-25 but still relatively few, a more noticeable number in the 26-30, probably 50% or greater in the 30+).
IDK why virgins would call themselves gold star, especially when on top of being a virgin they haven’t even dated or kissed other women. Being proud of being gold star when you’ve never been with a woman is funny to me 😂 like bihets are getting more pussy than u, that’s tragic. Also, a lot of these ‘virgin gold stars’ online are 30, 40 + years old. If you have made it this far in life and not even successfully kissed or had sex with a single woman why tf do you get a gold star? You’re a femcel at this point 😂😂

For me, I’m gold star because I’ve only been with women. I don’t like to center MEN in my sexuality. Virgins seem to define gold star as lack of experience with men, which centers men. Meanwhile those of us who are actually sexually active would be more likely to define gold star as only having experience with women.
DA you sound like an asshole.
Sounds like a male. Women don't shame virginity.

Re: Re:

by Guest » 19 Aug 2023, 21:28

Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 17:26
Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 16:43
Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 06:29
Virgins are not goldstars, by the way. That disqualifies most of the Lchatters.

Show your work? Am not reading 70+ replies of blather to find out how someone has twisted logic to make this seem a rule in every case.

Among female virgins, there must statistically be some goldstars, and one imagines that the percentage of them increases in higher age groups (i.e., not many lesbian virgins in the 18-21 category, a slight increase in the 22-25 but still relatively few, a more noticeable number in the 26-30, probably 50% or greater in the 30+).
IDK why virgins would call themselves gold star, especially when on top of being a virgin they haven’t even dated or kissed other women. Being proud of being gold star when you’ve never been with a woman is funny to me 😂 like bihets are getting more pussy than u, that’s tragic. Also, a lot of these ‘virgin gold stars’ online are 30, 40 + years old. If you have made it this far in life and not even successfully kissed or had sex with a single woman why tf do you get a gold star? You’re a femcel at this point 😂😂

For me, I’m gold star because I’ve only been with women. I don’t like to center MEN in my sexuality. Virgins seem to define gold star as lack of experience with men, which centers men. Meanwhile those of us who are actually sexually active would be more likely to define gold star as only having experience with women.
DA you sound like an asshole.

Re: Re:

by Guest » 19 Aug 2023, 17:26

Guest wrote:
19 Aug 2023, 16:43
Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 06:29
Virgins are not goldstars, by the way. That disqualifies most of the Lchatters.

Show your work? Am not reading 70+ replies of blather to find out how someone has twisted logic to make this seem a rule in every case.

Among female virgins, there must statistically be some goldstars, and one imagines that the percentage of them increases in higher age groups (i.e., not many lesbian virgins in the 18-21 category, a slight increase in the 22-25 but still relatively few, a more noticeable number in the 26-30, probably 50% or greater in the 30+).
IDK why virgins would call themselves gold star, especially when on top of being a virgin they haven’t even dated or kissed other women. Being proud of being gold star when you’ve never been with a woman is funny to me 😂 like bihets are getting more pussy than u, that’s tragic. Also, a lot of these ‘virgin gold stars’ online are 30, 40 + years old. If you have made it this far in life and not even successfully kissed or had sex with a single woman why tf do you get a gold star? You’re a femcel at this point 😂😂

For me, I’m gold star because I’ve only been with women. I don’t like to center MEN in my sexuality. Virgins seem to define gold star as lack of experience with men, which centers men. Meanwhile those of us who are actually sexually active would be more likely to define gold star as only having experience with women.

Re:

by Guest » 19 Aug 2023, 16:43

Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 06:29
Virgins are not goldstars, by the way. That disqualifies most of the Lchatters.

Show your work? Am not reading 70+ replies of blather to find out how someone has twisted logic to make this seem a rule in every case.

Among female virgins, there must statistically be some goldstars, and one imagines that the percentage of them increases in higher age groups (i.e., not many lesbian virgins in the 18-21 category, a slight increase in the 22-25 but still relatively few, a more noticeable number in the 26-30, probably 50% or greater in the 30+).

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 19 Aug 2023, 13:35

Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 19:34
DazzlingNova wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:44
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.
There are other gold stars on tumblr, they do exist! But the reason i was so disappointed by this person’s response to me just using logic is because she’s of the radfem bubble in tumblr and we have lots of opinions in common except she thinks a woman who has married a man, had like 3 kids with him, fucked on the daily then got tired and started calling herself a “late bloomer lesbian” is valid
When basic common sense says she’s just not


one of the actual gold stars i follow and talks a lot about how gold stars get mistreated for simply existing and stating basic facts. Her @ is tenko-irl
DA Lol im not surprised. A looooott of radfems are either poli lesbians aka fakebians or fakebian excusers, cause the most prominent radfems are fakebians and them acknowledging that these women are lying would be going against the drain.
Thats why i stoped visiting radfem places, most of these women are homophobic, while thinking they aint.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by DazzlingNova » 19 Aug 2023, 09:53

Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 19:34
DazzlingNova wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:44
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.
There are other gold stars on tumblr, they do exist! But the reason i was so disappointed by this person’s response to me just using logic is because she’s of the radfem bubble in tumblr and we have lots of opinions in common except she thinks a woman who has married a man, had like 3 kids with him, fucked on the daily then got tired and started calling herself a “late bloomer lesbian” is valid
When basic common sense says she’s just not


one of the actual gold stars i follow and talks a lot about how gold stars get mistreated for simply existing and stating basic facts. Her @ is tenko-irl
That's great to see that there are other gold stars over there for you to talk to! Aahh ok I see. She wouldn't like me either because that makes no sense. There's no way a woman who consensually dates (which I might add she did enjoy going out with those men)/marries a guy (one of the men she dated), have a home/kids with him, wakes up one day calling herself a lesbian, is suppose to be seen as/called a valid lesbian. If the woman I just described, is a "valid lesbian," then what does that make the lesbians like you and me? Alienbians? They should use something else instead of late bloomer lesbian (they aren't), because if a lesbian is married to a man, it's going to be a lavender marriage (for both parties) and that's the only way she can be an actual lesbian still.

Maybe they should use "LBWL" (late bloomer woman lover) or something, because I'm not sure what dimension she's living in to think that a lesbian will willingly get married to a straight man, happily have his kids, then years later say "I'm done with this marriage, I'm a lesbian woohoo!," but it's definitely not the same as us.

I see. At least when the nonsense gets too much for you, you can talk to someone who speaks sense and know where you're coming from ^_^

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 19 Aug 2023, 01:47

Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 19:34
DazzlingNova wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:44
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.
There are other gold stars on tumblr, they do exist! But the reason i was so disappointed by this person’s response to me just using logic is because she’s of the radfem bubble in tumblr and we have lots of opinions in common except she thinks a woman who has married a man, had like 3 kids with him, fucked on the daily then got tired and started calling herself a “late bloomer lesbian” is valid
When basic common sense says she’s just not


one of the actual gold stars i follow and talks a lot about how gold stars get mistreated for simply existing and stating basic facts. Her @ is tenko-irl
She’s amazing!

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 18 Aug 2023, 19:34

DazzlingNova wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:44
Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.
There are other gold stars on tumblr, they do exist! But the reason i was so disappointed by this person’s response to me just using logic is because she’s of the radfem bubble in tumblr and we have lots of opinions in common except she thinks a woman who has married a man, had like 3 kids with him, fucked on the daily then got tired and started calling herself a “late bloomer lesbian” is valid
When basic common sense says she’s just not


one of the actual gold stars i follow and talks a lot about how gold stars get mistreated for simply existing and stating basic facts. Her @ is tenko-irl

Re: Re:

by guest » 18 Aug 2023, 18:57

joejoe wrote:
06 Jun 2023, 01:36
Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 17:37
Guest wrote:This is bullshit. Loads of lesbians have slept with men because they were confused or felt they had to. Especially in some countries, it is very common. Doesn't make them less gay.
Too bad for them, it doesn't mean we can't celebrate the goldstars.
dont care didnt ask + youre a bihet
you sound like a bihet honestly, after all they're the only ones apart from men who have a strong hatred of goldstars and the idea of women not having sex with men

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by DazzlingNova » 18 Aug 2023, 18:44

Guest wrote:
18 Aug 2023, 18:04
Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:
That's pretty awful what happened to you anon :hug: I'm not too familiar with tumblr and how everything works, but have you come across any other gold stars there? That usually happens when you place logic next to illogic, swear words, being blocked, or both.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 18 Aug 2023, 18:04

Just had an argument with a “lesbian” on tumblr whom thinks late bloomers and non gold stars are valid when in this year and time it’s extremely difficult to find actual lesbians so I personally only trust other gold stars such as myself. Her response to that was calling me spoiled and some other really rude things
she also kept saying that sexual acts (like hooking up with males) don’t define sexuality, when i asked her what defines it then she just cussed me out then blocked me :hmmm:

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 10 Jun 2023, 06:19

Does sexting count when evaluating your gold star status? I was kind of mentally unstable as a teenager :sadangel:

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 06 Jun 2023, 23:28

Am I considered a gold star? I've never been in a relationship with a man or kissed one. The reason I'm asking is because I went on exactly one date with a man as a teenager

I've gone on dates with women/kissed/had sex :lol:

Re:

by joejoe » 06 Jun 2023, 01:36

Guest wrote:
28 Oct 2019, 17:37
Guest wrote:This is bullshit. Loads of lesbians have slept with men because they were confused or felt they had to. Especially in some countries, it is very common. Doesn't make them less gay.
Too bad for them, it doesn't mean we can't celebrate the goldstars.
dont care didnt ask + youre a bihet

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 04 Jun 2023, 15:24

Guest wrote:
04 Jun 2023, 14:39
Guest wrote:
04 Jun 2023, 13:22
y’all help me out here, is there an emoji used for platinum stars? should i just use the gold star emoji?
i know i’ll probably get hate for it but idc, that will weed out the manfuckers i guess lol. i don’t see why a real lesbian would be offended by it.
(gonna put it in my dating app profile, maybe my instagram too)
Hm idk about dating profiles, because i met my exes offline and my current girlfriend online (but not on a dating app and not with the intention of dating first), but i can tell you what worked for me. Always ask about past relationships on the first date and make a funny remark about some sort of High school fling or whatever, like how you pretended to have a bf or how you should count your days lusting about some straight girl, in a fun way, cause then its likely she will also revile if she had something with a boy at that time, even though she doesnt count it as "serious". Then also mention how you want to date someone with the same experiences like you, like you are looking specifically for a lesbian and nobody bisexual, because you personally never been with a man and see how she answers this.
Or you can be blunt and straight up say you are lookig for a fellow gold/platinum star, but some women might loos their shit so be prepared :lol:
yeah i’m already doing that but i’m tryna streamline it kind of, like i don’t wanna be talking to a girl for two weeks and then find out she had sex with a guy or something lol. also because im already really selective so if im on the first date it means i like her and then she’s bi or something 😬
i did pretend to have a boyfriend once in middle school lol, he went to another school. i was actually with a bisexual 10th grader cheerleader. she was totally hot but yk. i peaked in middle school lol

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 04 Jun 2023, 14:39

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04 Jun 2023, 13:22
y’all help me out here, is there an emoji used for platinum stars? should i just use the gold star emoji?
i know i’ll probably get hate for it but idc, that will weed out the manfuckers i guess lol. i don’t see why a real lesbian would be offended by it.
(gonna put it in my dating app profile, maybe my instagram too)
Hm idk about dating profiles, because i met my exes offline and my current girlfriend online (but not on a dating app and not with the intention of dating first), but i can tell you what worked for me. Always ask about past relationships on the first date and make a funny remark about some sort of High school fling or whatever, like how you pretended to have a bf or how you should count your days lusting about some straight girl, in a fun way, cause then its likely she will also revile if she had something with a boy at that time, even though she doesnt count it as "serious". Then also mention how you want to date someone with the same experiences like you, like you are looking specifically for a lesbian and nobody bisexual, because you personally never been with a man and see how she answers this.
Or you can be blunt and straight up say you are lookig for a fellow gold/platinum star, but some women might loos their shit so be prepared :lol:

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 04 Jun 2023, 13:22

y’all help me out here, is there an emoji used for platinum stars? should i just use the gold star emoji?
i know i’ll probably get hate for it but idc, that will weed out the manfuckers i guess lol. i don’t see why a real lesbian would be offended by it.
(gonna put it in my dating app profile, maybe my instagram too)

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 01 Jun 2023, 14:15

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27 May 2023, 06:58
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26 May 2023, 22:58
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05 Mar 2023, 18:03
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DA I agree with everything you said but these girls aren't even biphobic, they don't think bisexuality is a dirty word. Bisexuals LOVE being bisexual. What they do hate is lesbians, they think lesbianism is too "exclusive" unlike the amazing & incloooosive bisexuality.

Bisexual women are all homophobes who don't believe female homosexuality exists. They all believe that deep down lesbians are just kinsey 5 bisexual women. This is why women like OP try so hard to pass off their experience as the lesbian experience & harass any lesbian who says otherwise.
DA

Nothing the OP said suggests she believes homosexuality doesn't exist, or was disrespectful to lesbians. She was merely expressing her experience. And I tend to agree that people who don't have the luxury of living in a gay friendly environment, or can be insular (because that is a luxury too, not everybody can afford to isolate themselves), and therefore professionaly needs the approval of the wider society, are much more pressured than we are. No need to be nasty, as if some lesbians are better than others. I'm a platinum star, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with a lesbian just because she's a goldstar. It's absurd.
DA Bullshit. So you are saying lesbians aren’t born gay ?Under wrong circumstances lesbians fuck men? Really? I think the problem here is that ignorant bisexuals dont want accept themselves. Its just disrespectful behaviour to lesbians.
Not the other poster, but people have sex with people they aren't attracted to all the time. I think most non gold star lesbians are bisexual. But it is silly to go up to someone who say is in their 60s and 70s and say they aren't a lesbian because they married a dude in their youth or someone from a very religious background.

You are erasing gay history by pretending no lesbian has ever had relationships with men. Being a lesbian means NOT being attracted to men or wanting to have sex with men. It has nothing to do with not being capable of having relations with them.
Da why do you bis, cant help yourselfs and keep coming to this thread. Literally nobody can force you to get married or have sex with someone, period. You aint from Iran, so keep your bullshit to yourself. You willingly sleeping with men is attraction,
x2 The way they talk, it’s like they were all child brides from Yemen 🙄

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 30 May 2023, 12:14

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19 Mar 2023, 00:44
Guest wrote:
18 Mar 2023, 12:29
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18 Mar 2023, 11:29
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Great to see some lesbian solidarity in the last few pages after all the bullshit from those deranged bisexuals. They're not even worth arguing with. I think their attraction to males in their DNA brings some sort of mental retardation or something

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I love being a lesbian and a goldstar ❤️ . My girlfriend is also a goldstar so it is possible ladies! Just keep hope 🥰
Wow that's great. :D Yep don't give up hope and keep trying.

Let me guess you are both high femmes as well. Are you both platinum stars? How common are :goldstar: where you are?

If I had to put us into categories: I'm more of a tomboy/soft butch myself but my gf is a femme. Depending on our mood.😁

I'm from The Netherlands and with all the lesbians/bi's that I have known in the past few years, being a goldstar is NOT common at all. I've lived in large and in smaller cities, it's all the same.

The Netherlands, contrary to populair belief, is a very homophobic country that poses as being woke. The lesbians that do exist here all fall for the tranny rhetoric or transition themselves. And the other "lesbians" that don't transition are actually bisexual. I feel like lesbians don't really exist here and it's very lonely. I'm glad we at least have The L Chat to feel some solidarity, but the real world is quite depressing. I was also the poster who posted the story in the other topic of "Why do lesbians worship straight girls and hate bisexuals" about the teacher I looked up to who turned out to be a homophobic bisexual on p.201. That's our reality here. Can't even be a goldstar lesbian in peace in a western European country.

I'm 28 now and I've had many friends in the gay scene and it's always the same bs. Even in a "lesbian" friend group you're still being ostracized for being a goldstar and everyone thinks you're childish for being that way. All the "lesbian" friends I had in my life all turned out to be bisexual. Always dating women and then at one point have sex with a tranny male or all of a sudden being obsessed with a male friend and being open about having sex with males. And then trying to gaslight you for not wanting to try sex with males as being childish. I'm done with all the homophobia coming from non-goldstars. Them pretending that not having sex with males is a privilege is such a violent insult. I have been pressured to be straight by all my family members and have been pressured to be bi by all my "gay" friends. Still had NO urge to do it as it is against my own nature. Didn't even have to try to avoid it. Thinking about it already makes me sick. And then having to take all the insults about it. And I'm being privileged for being true to myself and losing friends and the support of my own so called community for it? I would laugh about it of it weren't so fucking painful.
The girls who claim they gave in to the pressure are just homophobic bisexuals with no spine, that's how I see it.

I'm not even trying to find lesbian friends anymore, my trust is damaged. Even my best friend who is clearly a strong women-leaning bisexual calls herself a lesbian. She's not even a goldstar. All her "lesbian" friends who call themselves gay are bisexual. I try not to stir up shit about that bc being a goldstar is already too lonely as it is. I try to keep my distance from her friends and not talk about this topic with her. I've already lost too many friends bc of the whole trans thing. At least I have a friend who only dates women, that's already rare.

But I do feel very lucky to at least have a girlfriend who knows what it's like to be a real lesbian, I cherish that ❤️. And I cherish this forum, even with the negative bullshit that you have to scroll past 😂
I doubt that. Most if not all women who go tranny are bi or straight. 9/10 female trannies I’ve come across pretend they’re “gay” trans men. Same for female trannies too, most of them these days aren’t gay anymore, they’re bi or straight “trans lesbians”.

Maybe you gotta stop pretending there’s such thing as ‘non-gold star lesbian’ there’s already a name for that: bisexual. The more lesbians don’t stand up for the meaning of lesbians the more attention seeking bis colonize ‘lesbian’
x100 the thread name is misleading. I know bisexuals appropriate our terms but lesbian only ever means homosexual woman.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 30 May 2023, 12:10

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27 May 2023, 03:43
why are bisexuals talking about men on this thread? let’s get back to talking about gold stars. i know arguments are really all this sub is lol but i love being a lesbian and only being with girls <3 idk what else to say about it so i’m gonna tell my first kiss story
so it was july 27th around 7pm a few years back and i was sitting here, on my bed with my best friend, we were just chilling and watching youtube, we had just watched the video where amy ordman and alexis g zall kiss if u are familiar, and i suggested we should kiss too. she said “sure” lol, we were both really nervous because we’d been friends for 6 months before kissing, also we’d both never kissed anyone before ofc so we just kinda giggled and looked at each other and tried to kiss for over 30 minutes before we actually did. i kissed her, i said “okay i’m actually gonna do it now” like 3 times before i actually did it. really fast kiss. then after i just hugged her because i didn’t want her to see me blushing and i think i said “that was mid. let me do it again” and yeah we basically like made out for almost an hour before my mom knocked on the door (it was 9pm at this time) and she wanted us to come with her to return a inflatable raft thing we had borrowed a few days before. this girl was strong af and she knew how to do these things so she like strapped the raft onto the car and i watched her, it was hot. her pants kind of came down. and then we sat together in the back seat of my moms van, holding hands the whole way in that nice summer nights breeze with the windows down <3 it was romantic as hell. when we got home we just kissed a few more times and then went to sleep (we didn’t have sex tho). the next day i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. and a few months later i found out she thought i’d kissed other people before which, i thought she knew i hadn’t but i took that to mean she thought i was good at it so lol. we definitely rushed it but all in all it was a great summer <3
❤️❤️❤️ that’s so cute

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 30 May 2023, 12:07

Guest wrote:
18 Mar 2023, 12:29
Guest wrote:
18 Mar 2023, 11:29
Guest wrote:
14 Mar 2023, 15:07
Great to see some lesbian solidarity in the last few pages after all the bullshit from those deranged bisexuals. They're not even worth arguing with. I think their attraction to males in their DNA brings some sort of mental retardation or something

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I love being a lesbian and a goldstar ❤️ . My girlfriend is also a goldstar so it is possible ladies! Just keep hope 🥰
Wow that's great. :D Yep don't give up hope and keep trying.

Let me guess you are both high femmes as well. Are you both platinum stars? How common are :goldstar: where you are?

If I had to put us into categories: I'm more of a tomboy/soft butch myself but my gf is a femme. Depending on our mood.😁

I'm from The Netherlands and with all the lesbians/bi's that I have known in the past few years, being a goldstar is NOT common at all. I've lived in large and in smaller cities, it's all the same.

The Netherlands, contrary to populair belief, is a very homophobic country that poses as being woke. The lesbians that do exist here all fall for the tranny rhetoric or transition themselves. And the other "lesbians" that don't transition are actually bisexual. I feel like lesbians don't really exist here and it's very lonely. I'm glad we at least have The L Chat to feel some solidarity, but the real world is quite depressing. I was also the poster who posted the story in the other topic of "Why do lesbians worship straight girls and hate bisexuals" about the teacher I looked up to who turned out to be a homophobic bisexual on p.201. That's our reality here. Can't even be a goldstar lesbian in peace in a western European country.

I'm 28 now and I've had many friends in the gay scene and it's always the same bs. Even in a "lesbian" friend group you're still being ostracized for being a goldstar and everyone thinks you're childish for being that way. All the "lesbian" friends I had in my life all turned out to be bisexual. Always dating women and then at one point have sex with a tranny male or all of a sudden being obsessed with a male friend and being open about having sex with males. And then trying to gaslight you for not wanting to try sex with males as being childish. I'm done with all the homophobia coming from non-goldstars. Them pretending that not having sex with males is a privilege is such a violent insult. I have been pressured to be straight by all my family members and have been pressured to be bi by all my "gay" friends. Still had NO urge to do it as it is against my own nature. Didn't even have to try to avoid it. Thinking about it already makes me sick. And then having to take all the insults about it. And I'm being privileged for being true to myself and losing friends and the support of my own so called community for it? I would laugh about it of it weren't so fucking painful.
The girls who claim they gave in to the pressure are just homophobic bisexuals with no spine, that's how I see it.

I'm not even trying to find lesbian friends anymore, my trust is damaged. Even my best friend who is clearly a strong women-leaning bisexual calls herself a lesbian. She's not even a goldstar. All her "lesbian" friends who call themselves gay are bisexual. I try not to stir up shit about that bc being a goldstar is already too lonely as it is. I try to keep my distance from her friends and not talk about this topic with her. I've already lost too many friends bc of the whole trans thing. At least I have a friend who only dates women, that's already rare.

But I do feel very lucky to at least have a girlfriend who knows what it's like to be a real lesbian, I cherish that ❤️. And I cherish this forum, even with the negative bullshit that you have to scroll past 😂
Lesbians are rare period. Whether that’s the Netherlands or anywhere. I’m from a neighboring country and lesbians are rare there too. Bisexuals outnumber us.
I never slept with men because the very thought makes me ill. Nobody forced me to. Of course I was judged and pitied but who cares? Nature is nature.
No country is lesbian-friendly but it’s not like we are forced into marriage as little girls or murdered by our family, unless you are muslim. Let’s not act as if Western Europe is the same as Afghanistan or Morocco.
Sometimes I think Europeans have to downplay our freedom. Just because it’s hardly perfect doesn’t mean we don’t have it good here.
I have met/known a few genuine lesbians though. Around 10. The rest were bisexuals. Some were honest about it and some weren’t and called themselves lesbians. If I pointed out that no lesbian ever sleeps with men, I was met with incredulity and anger. It’s the same shit everywhere. Male-lovers are always the majority.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 29 May 2023, 02:51

Guest wrote:
27 May 2023, 19:41
Guest wrote:
27 May 2023, 07:58
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everyone who’s first kiss was with a girl should tell their story now :3
:whistle: (whistling)
everyone just tryna argue :’) what happened to the appreciation? guys? i’m just tryna yolo u know
I think the appreciation flew out the window awhile ago. There was a long span of ugliness where anons questioned whether this was truly an appreciation thread or a DEPRECIATION thread lol. Let's get back on track here, gals, why don't we?
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Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 19:41

Guest wrote:
27 May 2023, 07:58
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27 May 2023, 03:53
everyone who’s first kiss was with a girl should tell their story now :3
:whistle: (whistling)
everyone just tryna argue :’) what happened to the appreciation? guys? i’m just tryna yolo u know

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 07:58

Guest wrote:
27 May 2023, 03:53
everyone who’s first kiss was with a girl should tell their story now :3
:whistle: (whistling)

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 07:57

Bisexuals being mad about women not having sex with men, nothing new

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 07:00

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26 May 2023, 23:03
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05 Mar 2023, 17:59
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05 Mar 2023, 17:49
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The saddest thing about this thread is that it's not even about celebrating lesbians, it's just a bunch of really angry, sad or/and either very privileged or very socially isolated lesbians using this space to hate on anyone who had anything to do with men,the focus is on the men, albeit in a hateful way, and it's other lesbians and other women attracted to women who suffer from this attitude.

Do any of you spewing hate on lesbians who have slept with men while closeted or while trying to figure themselves out and what not, realize that you are actually being extremely cruel and unfair and invalidating? Homophobia exists and it affects many, there's people who just shut themselves in, others who try desperately to fit in or hide because in that moment they mentally aren't in a place where they can cope with the hate and othering that comes with being gay, other people k1ll themselves, most gay people end up with some level of mental health damage(from depression and anxiety to PTSD), not everyone is immune to the pressure and conditioning still very real in all societies, even the most accepting ones. You are hating on lesbians who, while figuring themselves out or while internally terrified with the potential social consequences of being a lesbian, forced themselves to date men, to try being with a man, as reactions to the painful way in which society still others being gay and treats gay people as untermensch, gay love as less than, etc. The fact they did this instead of just being openly gay, freely and happily embracing and acting on their actual feelings and desires, like hetero people get to do, is related to the trauma of homophobia that most of us suffer in some way or another, it's disrespectful to deny this and deny their sexuality being lesbian, not because there's a shame in being bisexual but simply because it's denying their experience with homophobia, the coping mechanisms homophobia pushed them into. This is like victim blaming. There is actually a lot that on here, not just in this thread, you hate everyone who isn't a femme, thin, gold star lesbian who never touched a man but also perfectly fits heteronormative, male serving beauty standards. You hate hetero women for being hetero as if that's a choice, you hate bisexuals because they like men too, you hate "masculine" women for not adhering to femininity definitions designed by men to keep women down and hold them from competing equally with them and because you want hetero men and women to perceive lesbians as hot and cool in a heteronormative way, everything actually still revolves around men although you hate men. Your whole perception of a woman's worth is in her relationship(or lack there of) with men and how desirable she is by male designed standards, which is extra sad. In a way, you're no different from hetero society and men who ascribe worth to a woman by how attractive she is in specific ways, how many men have "had" her(the fewer the better ofc, otherwise she's spoiled goods), how available she is to you. A lesbian(and women in general) isn't ruined by having been with a man and it's common for gay people to try and live the hetero life before coming out, not because that's their sexual preference but for other reasons that have to with homophobia, it's not something pleasurable or fun, the opposite really.

To really, genuinely think that no "real" lesbian will date or sleep with a man for reasons other than genuine attraction, one has to either be born and raised in a super privileged social environment(urban, comfortably middle class, LGBT friendly), thus being very ignorant and unappreciative of how lucky they are to have never felt the amount of pressure or/and confusion most lesbians(homosexuals in general actually) have to deal with, or be so socially isolated, rejected, incel like mentally, that you blame others for everything and loathe all lesbians and women leaning bisexuals who at some point or another dated or slept with men to cope with social pressure, stigma, etc.
x100
Well-worded and insightful. Thank you for having the courage to stand up to this bullying. Many on here just don't understand (or don't believe in) how psychologically powerful the social pressure of "compulsory heterosexuality" and heteronormative culture is. It is extremely influential, and if not on a conscious scale then unconsciously. The "damage" being committed by the unsupportive lesbian sisters on here only adds to the homophobia and lesbophobia they (supposedly) purport to hate. Shame on them...
PsyCHoloGicAlLy pOwErfUl. Shut up. I swear whenever this thread gets bumped, the bisexual women that lurk on this site get so triggered. It doesn't matter how "powerful" za ebil hetwonormative culture is, it cannot overpower humans innate sexuality.

My best friend is a black goldstar lesbian who once lived in saudia arabia, she escaped to America & she survived FGM. I hope you continue to feel nothing but anger inside because deep down you know that no matter how many lies you tell yourself, you will never be a lesbian and women like my best friend are proof of it. :goldstar:
Good for your friend, and? Gay men, as usual much more practical, don't have this "existential" debate. They don't call a guy who lost his virginity to a girl, or dated girls in highschool, a bisexual man. They aren't threatened by late bloomers, either. This discussion is provincial.
Yes, and what is funny is these same women who believe that only gold stars are real lesbians are adamant that straight women have or want to have sex with women.
DA Ah yes the people who know that sleeping with someone means you are attracted to someone and that words have meanings are the ones thinking that, not you who thinks sleeping with men makes her still a lesbian.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 06:58

Guest wrote:
26 May 2023, 22:58
guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 18:03
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05 Mar 2023, 16:48
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05 Mar 2023, 16:20
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Stoped reading after the first Paragraf, but let me guess, buhu peer pressure in my western country totally forced me to suck D and sleep around with men (like my religious parents wanted) and you are all terrible and mean and incels and im totally a lesbian, with my two kids and ex hubby is super supportive why arent you.

Let me repeat what has written here again and again:
- Lesbians dont have to work, think or do anything hard to not sleep with men or to not be attracted towards men. We are born this way, we naturally dont want to have anything sexual with men.
- Women that are forced to have sex with men (raped, blackmailed, live in such a homophobic country they have to fear for their live if they dont get married) are still lesbians, but i bet all my money you dont live in Iran or Afghanistan.
- Goldstars get harassed, talked to, annoyed and pressured just as much as every woman to find a man, sleep with a man or whatever. Goldstars also deal with homophobs around them or are kicked out by their families, still they dont fuck with men, you know why CAUSE THEY ARE LESBIANS.
- Most lesbians from homophobic countries are Goldstars, you know why? Cause actual religious/conservative parents dont tell you to fuck around with men
- Bisexual isnt a dirty word or a dirty live. Having sex with both sexes means your bisexual. Stop being biphobic and be what you are. Clearly you hate bisexuality if you think thats less then being a lesbian or something.

Did i miss something?
DA I agree with everything you said but these girls aren't even biphobic, they don't think bisexuality is a dirty word. Bisexuals LOVE being bisexual. What they do hate is lesbians, they think lesbianism is too "exclusive" unlike the amazing & incloooosive bisexuality.

Bisexual women are all homophobes who don't believe female homosexuality exists. They all believe that deep down lesbians are just kinsey 5 bisexual women. This is why women like OP try so hard to pass off their experience as the lesbian experience & harass any lesbian who says otherwise.
DA

Nothing the OP said suggests she believes homosexuality doesn't exist, or was disrespectful to lesbians. She was merely expressing her experience. And I tend to agree that people who don't have the luxury of living in a gay friendly environment, or can be insular (because that is a luxury too, not everybody can afford to isolate themselves), and therefore professionaly needs the approval of the wider society, are much more pressured than we are. No need to be nasty, as if some lesbians are better than others. I'm a platinum star, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with a lesbian just because she's a goldstar. It's absurd.
DA Bullshit. So you are saying lesbians aren’t born gay ?Under wrong circumstances lesbians fuck men? Really? I think the problem here is that ignorant bisexuals dont want accept themselves. Its just disrespectful behaviour to lesbians.
Not the other poster, but people have sex with people they aren't attracted to all the time. I think most non gold star lesbians are bisexual. But it is silly to go up to someone who say is in their 60s and 70s and say they aren't a lesbian because they married a dude in their youth or someone from a very religious background.

You are erasing gay history by pretending no lesbian has ever had relationships with men. Being a lesbian means NOT being attracted to men or wanting to have sex with men. It has nothing to do with not being capable of having relations with them.
Da why do you bis, cant help yourselfs and keep coming to this thread. Literally nobody can force you to get married or have sex with someone, period. You aint from Iran, so keep your bullshit to yourself. You willingly sleeping with men is attraction,

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 03:53

everyone who’s first kiss was with a girl should tell their story now :3

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 27 May 2023, 03:43

why are bisexuals talking about men on this thread? let’s get back to talking about gold stars. i know arguments are really all this sub is lol but i love being a lesbian and only being with girls <3 idk what else to say about it so i’m gonna tell my first kiss story
so it was july 27th around 7pm a few years back and i was sitting here, on my bed with my best friend, we were just chilling and watching youtube, we had just watched the video where amy ordman and alexis g zall kiss if u are familiar, and i suggested we should kiss too. she said “sure” lol, we were both really nervous because we’d been friends for 6 months before kissing, also we’d both never kissed anyone before ofc so we just kinda giggled and looked at each other and tried to kiss for over 30 minutes before we actually did. i kissed her, i said “okay i’m actually gonna do it now” like 3 times before i actually did it. really fast kiss. then after i just hugged her because i didn’t want her to see me blushing and i think i said “that was mid. let me do it again” and yeah we basically like made out for almost an hour before my mom knocked on the door (it was 9pm at this time) and she wanted us to come with her to return a inflatable raft thing we had borrowed a few days before. this girl was strong af and she knew how to do these things so she like strapped the raft onto the car and i watched her, it was hot. her pants kind of came down. and then we sat together in the back seat of my moms van, holding hands the whole way in that nice summer nights breeze with the windows down <3 it was romantic as hell. when we got home we just kissed a few more times and then went to sleep (we didn’t have sex tho). the next day i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. and a few months later i found out she thought i’d kissed other people before which, i thought she knew i hadn’t but i took that to mean she thought i was good at it so lol. we definitely rushed it but all in all it was a great summer <3

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 26 May 2023, 23:03

Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 17:59
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 17:49
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 17:42
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 14:13
The saddest thing about this thread is that it's not even about celebrating lesbians, it's just a bunch of really angry, sad or/and either very privileged or very socially isolated lesbians using this space to hate on anyone who had anything to do with men,the focus is on the men, albeit in a hateful way, and it's other lesbians and other women attracted to women who suffer from this attitude.

Do any of you spewing hate on lesbians who have slept with men while closeted or while trying to figure themselves out and what not, realize that you are actually being extremely cruel and unfair and invalidating? Homophobia exists and it affects many, there's people who just shut themselves in, others who try desperately to fit in or hide because in that moment they mentally aren't in a place where they can cope with the hate and othering that comes with being gay, other people k1ll themselves, most gay people end up with some level of mental health damage(from depression and anxiety to PTSD), not everyone is immune to the pressure and conditioning still very real in all societies, even the most accepting ones. You are hating on lesbians who, while figuring themselves out or while internally terrified with the potential social consequences of being a lesbian, forced themselves to date men, to try being with a man, as reactions to the painful way in which society still others being gay and treats gay people as untermensch, gay love as less than, etc. The fact they did this instead of just being openly gay, freely and happily embracing and acting on their actual feelings and desires, like hetero people get to do, is related to the trauma of homophobia that most of us suffer in some way or another, it's disrespectful to deny this and deny their sexuality being lesbian, not because there's a shame in being bisexual but simply because it's denying their experience with homophobia, the coping mechanisms homophobia pushed them into. This is like victim blaming. There is actually a lot that on here, not just in this thread, you hate everyone who isn't a femme, thin, gold star lesbian who never touched a man but also perfectly fits heteronormative, male serving beauty standards. You hate hetero women for being hetero as if that's a choice, you hate bisexuals because they like men too, you hate "masculine" women for not adhering to femininity definitions designed by men to keep women down and hold them from competing equally with them and because you want hetero men and women to perceive lesbians as hot and cool in a heteronormative way, everything actually still revolves around men although you hate men. Your whole perception of a woman's worth is in her relationship(or lack there of) with men and how desirable she is by male designed standards, which is extra sad. In a way, you're no different from hetero society and men who ascribe worth to a woman by how attractive she is in specific ways, how many men have "had" her(the fewer the better ofc, otherwise she's spoiled goods), how available she is to you. A lesbian(and women in general) isn't ruined by having been with a man and it's common for gay people to try and live the hetero life before coming out, not because that's their sexual preference but for other reasons that have to with homophobia, it's not something pleasurable or fun, the opposite really.

To really, genuinely think that no "real" lesbian will date or sleep with a man for reasons other than genuine attraction, one has to either be born and raised in a super privileged social environment(urban, comfortably middle class, LGBT friendly), thus being very ignorant and unappreciative of how lucky they are to have never felt the amount of pressure or/and confusion most lesbians(homosexuals in general actually) have to deal with, or be so socially isolated, rejected, incel like mentally, that you blame others for everything and loathe all lesbians and women leaning bisexuals who at some point or another dated or slept with men to cope with social pressure, stigma, etc.
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Well-worded and insightful. Thank you for having the courage to stand up to this bullying. Many on here just don't understand (or don't believe in) how psychologically powerful the social pressure of "compulsory heterosexuality" and heteronormative culture is. It is extremely influential, and if not on a conscious scale then unconsciously. The "damage" being committed by the unsupportive lesbian sisters on here only adds to the homophobia and lesbophobia they (supposedly) purport to hate. Shame on them...
PsyCHoloGicAlLy pOwErfUl. Shut up. I swear whenever this thread gets bumped, the bisexual women that lurk on this site get so triggered. It doesn't matter how "powerful" za ebil hetwonormative culture is, it cannot overpower humans innate sexuality.

My best friend is a black goldstar lesbian who once lived in saudia arabia, she escaped to America & she survived FGM. I hope you continue to feel nothing but anger inside because deep down you know that no matter how many lies you tell yourself, you will never be a lesbian and women like my best friend are proof of it. :goldstar:
Good for your friend, and? Gay men, as usual much more practical, don't have this "existential" debate. They don't call a guy who lost his virginity to a girl, or dated girls in highschool, a bisexual man. They aren't threatened by late bloomers, either. This discussion is provincial.
Yes, and what is funny is these same women who believe that only gold stars are real lesbians are adamant that straight women have or want to have sex with women.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 26 May 2023, 22:58

guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 18:03
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 16:48
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 16:20
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 15:50
Guest wrote:
05 Mar 2023, 14:13
The saddest thing about this thread is that it's not even about celebrating lesbians, it's just a bunch of really angry, sad or/and either very privileged or very socially isolated lesbians using this space to hate on anyone who had anything to do with men,the focus is on the men, albeit in a hateful way, and it's other lesbians and other women attracted to women who suffer from this attitude.

Do any of you spewing hate on lesbians who have slept with men while closeted or while trying to figure themselves out and what not, realize that you are actually being extremely cruel and unfair and invalidating? Homophobia exists and it affects many, there's people who just shut themselves in, others who try desperately to fit in or hide because in that moment they mentally aren't in a place where they can cope with the hate and othering that comes with being gay, other people k1ll themselves, most gay people end up with some level of mental health damage(from depression and anxiety to PTSD), not everyone is immune to the pressure and conditioning still very real in all societies, even the most accepting ones. You are hating on lesbians who, while figuring themselves out or while internally terrified with the potential social consequences of being a lesbian, forced themselves to date men, to try being with a man, as reactions to the painful way in which society still others being gay and treats gay people as untermensch, gay love as less than, etc. The fact they did this instead of just being openly gay, freely and happily embracing and acting on their actual feelings and desires, like hetero people get to do, is related to the trauma of homophobia that most of us suffer in some way or another, it's disrespectful to deny this and deny their sexuality being lesbian, not because there's a shame in being bisexual but simply because it's denying their experience with homophobia, the coping mechanisms homophobia pushed them into. This is like victim blaming. There is actually a lot that on here, not just in this thread, you hate everyone who isn't a femme, thin, gold star lesbian who never touched a man but also perfectly fits heteronormative, male serving beauty standards. You hate hetero women for being hetero as if that's a choice, you hate bisexuals because they like men too, you hate "masculine" women for not adhering to femininity definitions designed by men to keep women down and hold them from competing equally with them and because you want hetero men and women to perceive lesbians as hot and cool in a heteronormative way, everything actually still revolves around men although you hate men. Your whole perception of a woman's worth is in her relationship(or lack there of) with men and how desirable she is by male designed standards, which is extra sad. In a way, you're no different from hetero society and men who ascribe worth to a woman by how attractive she is in specific ways, how many men have "had" her(the fewer the better ofc, otherwise she's spoiled goods), how available she is to you. A lesbian(and women in general) isn't ruined by having been with a man and it's common for gay people to try and live the hetero life before coming out, not because that's their sexual preference but for other reasons that have to with homophobia, it's not something pleasurable or fun, the opposite really.

To really, genuinely think that no "real" lesbian will date or sleep with a man for reasons other than genuine attraction, one has to either be born and raised in a super privileged social environment(urban, comfortably middle class, LGBT friendly), thus being very ignorant and unappreciative of how lucky they are to have never felt the amount of pressure or/and confusion most lesbians(homosexuals in general actually) have to deal with, or be so socially isolated, rejected, incel like mentally, that you blame others for everything and loathe all lesbians and women leaning bisexuals who at some point or another dated or slept with men to cope with social pressure, stigma, etc.
Stoped reading after the first Paragraf, but let me guess, buhu peer pressure in my western country totally forced me to suck D and sleep around with men (like my religious parents wanted) and you are all terrible and mean and incels and im totally a lesbian, with my two kids and ex hubby is super supportive why arent you.

Let me repeat what has written here again and again:
- Lesbians dont have to work, think or do anything hard to not sleep with men or to not be attracted towards men. We are born this way, we naturally dont want to have anything sexual with men.
- Women that are forced to have sex with men (raped, blackmailed, live in such a homophobic country they have to fear for their live if they dont get married) are still lesbians, but i bet all my money you dont live in Iran or Afghanistan.
- Goldstars get harassed, talked to, annoyed and pressured just as much as every woman to find a man, sleep with a man or whatever. Goldstars also deal with homophobs around them or are kicked out by their families, still they dont fuck with men, you know why CAUSE THEY ARE LESBIANS.
- Most lesbians from homophobic countries are Goldstars, you know why? Cause actual religious/conservative parents dont tell you to fuck around with men
- Bisexual isnt a dirty word or a dirty live. Having sex with both sexes means your bisexual. Stop being biphobic and be what you are. Clearly you hate bisexuality if you think thats less then being a lesbian or something.

Did i miss something?
DA I agree with everything you said but these girls aren't even biphobic, they don't think bisexuality is a dirty word. Bisexuals LOVE being bisexual. What they do hate is lesbians, they think lesbianism is too "exclusive" unlike the amazing & incloooosive bisexuality.

Bisexual women are all homophobes who don't believe female homosexuality exists. They all believe that deep down lesbians are just kinsey 5 bisexual women. This is why women like OP try so hard to pass off their experience as the lesbian experience & harass any lesbian who says otherwise.
DA

Nothing the OP said suggests she believes homosexuality doesn't exist, or was disrespectful to lesbians. She was merely expressing her experience. And I tend to agree that people who don't have the luxury of living in a gay friendly environment, or can be insular (because that is a luxury too, not everybody can afford to isolate themselves), and therefore professionaly needs the approval of the wider society, are much more pressured than we are. No need to be nasty, as if some lesbians are better than others. I'm a platinum star, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with a lesbian just because she's a goldstar. It's absurd.
DA Bullshit. So you are saying lesbians aren’t born gay ?Under wrong circumstances lesbians fuck men? Really? I think the problem here is that ignorant bisexuals dont want accept themselves. Its just disrespectful behaviour to lesbians.
Not the other poster, but people have sex with people they aren't attracted to all the time. I think most non gold star lesbians are bisexual. But it is silly to go up to someone who say is in their 60s and 70s and say they aren't a lesbian because they married a dude in their youth or someone from a very religious background.

You are erasing gay history by pretending no lesbian has ever had relationships with men. Being a lesbian means NOT being attracted to men or wanting to have sex with men. It has nothing to do with not being capable of having relations with them.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 21 May 2023, 00:15

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Ok, I have a question. :spy:
If you're a virgen and have sex with a woman, will sje knows? Like, having sex for the first time will make you bleed or something? Yes, it is a real question and yes, I'm dumb. But 🤷‍♀️
she should know, you should tell her before having sex. you’re not gonna bleed but she’ll probably be able to tell you’re a virgin anyways and it would be better if you just told her.
I agree. And it's not like I'm doing it but I wad just thinking. Lol
I'm almost 30 and never had sex so telling it to someone would be hard cause she would think I'm an idiot or something. Here where I live (Brazil) people sees it as a huge ass deal and anyone would make fun of me. So :nervous:
I'm hopeless.
it’s better now then never. it will be more embarrassing when you’re 35, you’re not getting any younger. (no offense to anyone, just always better to do it now than to be scared of being made fun of your whole life, you’re not getting laid if u live in fear). i used to feel that way too tbh (in high school) but i regret it sm. also you can just say “i don’t have much experience” or something, you don’t have to say you’ve never done *anything*. that was kind of my plan and it worked, like u can say “i haven’t really eaten pussy that much so idk if i’ll be good” (and then be good at it), she will not mind.
I'm so fucked. :lol:
If it ever happens I think this is what I would do but I'm afraid she would know somehow, like if I would bleed or something since I'm virgen and pathetic. Lol :bigcry:
Da.
Don't worry, hymens don't usually work like that. The whole bleeding from losing your virginity thing is pretty much a myth. Most hymens are completely worn down from running and playing before girls even go through puberty. On the flipside, some hymens are so thick that they stay intact even after multiple partners. The most important thing is to stay mindful during sex. If you try penetration and find it uncomfortable and painful, then stop doing it. I have endometriosis and fingering feels awful for me. No women have ever made me feel bad about it.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 20 May 2023, 23:49

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well, if you’re really scared of bleeding u can either break it yourself or just not let her stick her fingers in there. fingering creeps me out so i haven’t done it myself and can’t offer any advice on that but good luck!
Da your hymen doesn’t ‘break’ 🙄
Wtf who still thinks that? Nobody is supposed to bleed the first time they have sex.
You are all embarrassing virgins here.
Op here and yes, exactly. Lol :sadangel:
girl you need to get laid fr
I know.
is there a pride parade in your town? i haven’t met any girls outside of school so far but that’s my plan for this summer lol.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 20 May 2023, 23:06

Guest wrote:
20 May 2023, 13:01
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19 May 2023, 23:09
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19 May 2023, 18:50
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I'm so fucked. :lol:
If it ever happens I think this is what I would do but I'm afraid she would know somehow, like if I would bleed or something since I'm virgen and pathetic. Lol :bigcry:
well, if you’re really scared of bleeding u can either break it yourself or just not let her stick her fingers in there. fingering creeps me out so i haven’t done it myself and can’t offer any advice on that but good luck!
Da your hymen doesn’t ‘break’ 🙄
Wtf who still thinks that? Nobody is supposed to bleed the first time they have sex.
You are all embarrassing virgins here.
Op here and yes, exactly. Lol :sadangel:
girl you need to get laid fr
I know.

Re: Goldstar/platinum Star Appreciation Thread

by Guest » 20 May 2023, 14:05

Guest wrote:
19 May 2023, 19:13
Guest wrote:
19 May 2023, 18:50
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19 May 2023, 16:08
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19 May 2023, 16:00
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it’s better now then never. it will be more embarrassing when you’re 35, you’re not getting any younger. (no offense to anyone, just always better to do it now than to be scared of being made fun of your whole life, you’re not getting laid if u live in fear). i used to feel that way too tbh (in high school) but i regret it sm. also you can just say “i don’t have much experience” or something, you don’t have to say you’ve never done *anything*. that was kind of my plan and it worked, like u can say “i haven’t really eaten pussy that much so idk if i’ll be good” (and then be good at it), she will not mind.
I'm so fucked. :lol:
If it ever happens I think this is what I would do but I'm afraid she would know somehow, like if I would bleed or something since I'm virgen and pathetic. Lol :bigcry:
well, if you’re really scared of bleeding u can either break it yourself or just not let her stick her fingers in there. fingering creeps me out so i haven’t done it myself and can’t offer any advice on that but good luck!
Da your hymen doesn’t ‘break’ 🙄
Wtf who still thinks that? Nobody is supposed to bleed the first time they have sex.
You are all embarrassing virgins here.
Da, mine did break and did bleed.

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