by Guest » 27 May 2022, 15:13
Guest wrote: ↑27 May 2022, 14:35
Guest wrote: ↑27 May 2022, 13:38
DA Your advice is incorrect. Emotional cheating is where one partner shares secret, emotional intimacy and connection with someone other than their partner. This connection crosses boundaries and assumes a breach of trust within the primary relationship.
The Effect of Emotional Cheating If these trust issues remain unsolved, the person cheated on can no longer form healthy relationships with other people. They can become paranoid and feel threatened by their partner's friendships. They can try to restrict these friendships as an effect of their psychological trauma.
https://www.thrivingcenterofpsych.com/b ... al-affairs
DA. No such a thing as emotional cheating. People who believe this shit are the same people who believe in zodiac signs. It’s always r-- women.
“Psychological trauma” lol it’s stunning how these days people feel so comfortable draining words of its meaning (especially serious words like trauma) so they can come up with bullshity terms.
People who are prone to paranoia are mentally ill.
the person cheated on can no longer form healthy relationships with other people. They can become paranoid and feel threatened by their partner's friendships. They can try to restrict these friendships as an effect of their psychological trauma
The person “cheated on” isn’t a victim. She would be the toxic one in the relationship. Read this shit again. Literal description of a controlling possessive relationship being excused by fake trauma.
People can have friends and confidents when they are in healthy relationships. One doesn’t need to tell all their secrets to their girlfriend/wife. People still have the right to individuality when in relationships. People who defend this “emotional cheating” bs are the only ones crossing boundaries. You weird.
DA. Total garbage. Emotional cheating is complete cheating. Do you think someone abruptly wakes up from bed and magically decide to go have an affair with someone else? It all starts small. She or he first knew them as a friend, then felt like they had a lot in common and that the other party is attractive. Then at home, start fantasizing about all kinds of possibilities
(as well as withdrawing emotionally and physically from their partner or behaving weirdly), and finally, go have that affair if the other party is receptive.
If you are in a relationship, you are not supposed to be thinking of other people in a romantic and sexual context. And you are not supposed to be behaving as if you are still single. I don't know about you, but a lot of seriously married people around me do the same thing. They often behave with propriety in public, and don't put themselves in a position where people could misinterpret them having an affair.
If your girlfriend is not enough for you, then don't be with her. And if you don't like monogamy, then stick to casual relationships. Don't attempt to have your cake and eat it too.
Frankly, I can't stand people who instead of being honest about their intentions, twist facts all around and come up with fake justifications. If you want an excuse to cheat, just say so. You are the one violating her boundaries when she clearly said she wanted a monogamous relationship, and have already explained to you what that entails. Nobody will suspect you of emotional cheating if you aren't up to no good. And you won't be conscious of emotional cheating if you yourself aren't up to no good.
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DA Your advice is incorrect. Emotional cheating is where one partner shares secret, emotional intimacy and connection with someone other than their partner. This connection crosses boundaries and assumes a breach of trust within the primary relationship. [b] The Effect of Emotional Cheating If these trust issues remain unsolved, the person cheated on can no longer form healthy relationships with other people. They can become paranoid and feel threatened by their partner's friendships. They can try to restrict these friendships as an effect of their psychological trauma.[/b]
https://www.thrivingcenterofpsych.com/blog/why-emotional-cheating-is-just-as-bad-as-physical-affairs
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DA. No such a thing as emotional cheating. People who believe this shit are the same people who believe in zodiac signs. It’s always r-tarded women.
“Psychological trauma” lol it’s stunning how these days people feel so comfortable draining words of its meaning (especially serious words like trauma) so they can come up with bullshity terms.
People who are prone to paranoia are mentally ill.
[b]the person cheated on can no longer form healthy relationships with other people. They can become paranoid and feel threatened by their partner's friendships. They can try to restrict these friendships as an effect of their psychological trauma[/b]
The person “cheated on” isn’t a victim. She would be the toxic one in the relationship. Read this shit again. Literal description of a controlling possessive relationship being excused by fake trauma.
People can have friends and confidents when they are in healthy relationships. One doesn’t need to tell all their secrets to their girlfriend/wife. People still have the right to individuality when in relationships. People who defend this “emotional cheating” bs are the only ones crossing boundaries. You weird.
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DA. Total garbage. Emotional cheating is complete cheating. Do you think someone abruptly wakes up from bed and magically decide to go have an affair with someone else? It all starts small. She or he first knew them as a friend, then felt like they had a lot in common and that the other party is attractive. Then at home, start fantasizing about all kinds of possibilities [b](as well as withdrawing emotionally and physically from their partner or behaving weirdly)[/b], and finally, go have that affair if the other party is receptive.
If you are in a relationship, you are not supposed to be thinking of other people in a romantic and sexual context. And you are not supposed to be behaving as if you are still single. I don't know about you, but a lot of seriously married people around me do the same thing. They often behave with propriety in public, and don't put themselves in a position where people could misinterpret them having an affair.
If your girlfriend is not enough for you, then don't be with her. And if you don't like monogamy, then stick to casual relationships. Don't attempt to have your cake and eat it too.
Frankly, I can't stand people who instead of being honest about their intentions, twist facts all around and come up with fake justifications. If you want an excuse to cheat, just say so. You are the one violating her boundaries when she clearly said she wanted a monogamous relationship, and have already explained to you what that entails. Nobody will suspect you of emotional cheating if you aren't up to no good. And you won't be conscious of emotional cheating if you yourself aren't up to no good.